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How do I have a conversation with my husband about not wanting any more kids?

I just don’t think that I can handle any more miscarriages or the infertility anymore.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
"Ey yo, dawg. The time is up. I ain't want anymore kids a'ight?"
Honestly, openly, sincerely, and soon.
Do not resort to threats or demands. Treat your hubby the way you would want him to speak to and treat you.
PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
Tell him that you love him, but that you just can't bear to suffer through the pain of another miscarriage. Have you thought about adoption?
Tell him the next kid you have, you'll put inside of him and he can carry it.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@froggtongue Go seahorse on his ass!
ShyCDinCali · 46-50, M
Come out and just start the convo. He needs to know it sooner than later.
IamDRock · 41-45, M
Get your tubes tied without telling him... DONE
turmoil · F
@IamDRock I don’t ghink that I need to go that far, lol
IamDRock · 41-45, M
@turmoil ok good... on second thought have him get snipped
Allelse · 36-40, M
By being honest and sincere. You're a partnership not a breed vessel.
Darling it's your body!
turmoil · F
@RadiantRuby I just feel awful because we’ve wanted a bigger family, and now I’m the one that is stopping it.
@turmoil You shouldn't at all feel sorry about that. It's a choice you both need to make. And things and situations change. Especially if you now already have a kid, it's perfectly acceptable to have a moment to reevaluate what you want going forward.
@turmoil if you need a surrogate let me know!
1GHOST · M
I think you just did ...this is exactly what you need to say.
SW-User
Straight forward
ProfessionalHauler · 22-25, M
Fake your own death.
BlueRain · F

 
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