Do i continue to love or let go?

Continue to love....my sister was married to a man 23 years older than she for many years. Yes, he died of natural causes a few years ago.....but they were happy together for a long time before he died. Some people have died when they were more than 20 years younger than he was (he was 82).
If you really love someone you shouldn’t lose them now because you fear losing them a short time from now. I’m here today because my grandfather didn’t do that. My grandmother was diagnosed with rheumatic heart disease when she was 18 (her parents and siblings all had it, and none of them lived past age 35). She was told she had a year to live. A short time later she met my grandfather, who fell madly in love with her and proposed to her after they had dated for 3 weeks. She told him that the doctors had given her a year to live. He said “Well, however long you have to live, that’s how long I want to live with you.” They were married for over 50 years and had 3 children, including my mother.
(My grandmother’s rheumatic heart disease was not as severe as the doctors back then had thought, and none of her children or grandchildren has been diagnosed with it).
You never know what the future might bring....don’t let go because of that.

You should dump him now

They're kind of inevitable, I fear. And yeah, no matter on ages, you will lose people you love, that's just part of life. Trying to protect yourself by never being with anyone doesnt seem to work either.

Karma can be a bitch. Dump him for his age, hook up with someone your age, and he could die in an auto crash this afternoon. We all will die; we don't know when. So plan your life on more reliable things like what you get from the current relationship and what kind of life you want to have.

it is a legit concern kels. whenever two people get together they will at some point not be - death, divorce, etc.

there's not telling how long you'll be together anyway. maybe 6 months, maybe 6 years.

the main question is whether he makes you content/happy now.

If it actually lasts like that, you got a number of years of happiness, which is more than most can say. Also, someone loving you faithfully until their last breath may hurt when they die but there is something beautiful about it too

Everyone dies, it can strike suddenly at any age. I wouldn't let something that could happen 30 years down the line impact your state of mind now if you can help it.

No matter who you end up wanting to be with; ultimately, we're all headed in the same direction, but i do see your rationale.

Only one thing really matters - are you in love with him?

a few years earlier and he be a paedophile

No live life then when he is gone and he is 85 you will be in your 60's