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I Dont Like To Be Around People With Nasty Spirits

SW Member Bashers!

I'm pretty laid back and easy going and will give anyone my time if they need it.
BUT..
I'm making it known that I take friendships here I make seriously, I will support and back anyone up that needs it.
I was missing yesterday so didn't get on much but was appalled at a post that was encouraging other members to name who they disliked the most here, and even more appalled that SW allowed it to go on for so long.
You have committed members here and to let these little two bit users that don't hang around and are here just to stir trouble slag off decent members and encourage others to do it is totally uncalled for!
Anyone that I have friended should know if I see you joining in which is your right as an individual, I will be removing you from my list as I do not care to associate with that kind of two faced nastiness..
If you have strong feelings against someone, have the balls to pm them and tell THEM one on one, not go through others and get little posse together to do it..

Update..
Well done to admin for editing that post although it would have been better removed and for suspending the poster...Thank you.
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Myzery · 41-45, F
Agreed. I made a comment on said post "complaining" that I never get named in any lists.
That being said, I don't give a hoot. But, unfortunately there are some people that would be and were hurt by such a post. I had unfollowed before any bashing began, only looking in my own comment area, but I did see some of the aftermath.

And, the type of people who enjoy those types of posts get a kick out of going after the people who they know will be hurt by it. Is it just low self-esteem/worth or is there more to it? I have never found any joy in tearing another human being down. So I just cannot wrap my head around why it is so popular.

Even with the "positive" "who's your favorite" "who's the funniest" posts. They are about exclusion. Let's see who is better than who. Well, I didn't play those games in middle school or high school and I damn sure am not going to start now that I am nearly 40.

I did watch the post for a short while to observe, because that is what I do on the real world and online. I observe how humans behave and adjust my actions in their presence accordingly.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Myzery yes I'm very much the same..any posts that incurs derogatory comments or a popularity contest is going to cause friction..but that while post was just very distasteful..