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I Dont Like To Be Around People With Nasty Spirits

SW Member Bashers!

I'm pretty laid back and easy going and will give anyone my time if they need it.
BUT..
I'm making it known that I take friendships here I make seriously, I will support and back anyone up that needs it.
I was missing yesterday so didn't get on much but was appalled at a post that was encouraging other members to name who they disliked the most here, and even more appalled that SW allowed it to go on for so long.
You have committed members here and to let these little two bit users that don't hang around and are here just to stir trouble slag off decent members and encourage others to do it is totally uncalled for!
Anyone that I have friended should know if I see you joining in which is your right as an individual, I will be removing you from my list as I do not care to associate with that kind of two faced nastiness..
If you have strong feelings against someone, have the balls to pm them and tell THEM one on one, not go through others and get little posse together to do it..

Update..
Well done to admin for editing that post although it would have been better removed and for suspending the poster...Thank you.

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Miram · 31-35, F

The naming was unnecessary but bit of venting wouldn't hurt. I feel my own answer wasn't unfair in any way. He already knows about my feelings so it's no two faced nastiness.

I think few were blocked and don't have the chance to talk about it one on one.

I had people making posts about me four times, three with my username included and bunch joining in. It did upset me for few days but I figured people aren't perfect and I should not expect otherwise. Everyone makes mistakes.

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@Miram it's got nothing to do with being perfect, just a decent human being. If you have an issue with anyone people should message them direct one on one..not go for public bashing.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Primnproper I agree that names shouldn't be mentioned but I am also aware one-on-one isn't always possible and not everyone who answered the post was bashful,mean or bullying

SW-User

@Miram everyone feels justified until it is them...then it just keeps going round and round... I see no reason to call people out accept to cause drama and be "entertained" by people calling others names... doesn't it seem a bit childish and unkind?

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@Miram no they weren't but a lot were and it's not behaviour that SW wants to be letting carry on..it's about respect.

SW-User

@Miram the asker encouraged people to do just that several times,to bash others ,so I have to believe that was the intent of the question?

Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User I think they have every right to talk about their feelings, first to each other and if they have to talk about them with others for some reason they don't have to use names or make it so obvious and give hints.

It's against the TOS anyway

SW-User

@Miram yes, it is against TOS

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@SW-User yes but the poster got away with stirring it but not actually naming anyone in the title post..

SW-User

@Primnproper good point she only encouraged others to do it and they were very willing to do so