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marsbar · F
Ok SWeeps. I sent him the text an hour ago. Once I pressed send, I screamed. 🤣. I haven’t heard back yet, but it’s cool if I don’t, or he says no. It’s not going to affect me negatively. At least I said I did it & tried.
*pats myself on the back* 😂
*pats myself on the back* 😂

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@marsbar Yaaaaaaaaaaay
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@marsbar Good for you!
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
marsbar · F
Oh my god I’m so nervous that I can’t stop laughing. And you guys aren’t helping with my giggles. 😓😆🤣
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marsbar · F
@SW-User @MrBlueGuy @iamonfire696 Sent

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@marsbar Good girl 😌
BlueVeins · 22-25
That sounds like an awesome first text! Go get him girl!

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Whats the worst that he can say? No? I would go for it. You got nothing to lose.
marsbar · F
@SW-User Nada. Oh well. That’s fine. But I did hear from another guy. 😅

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@marsbar Awe, well at least someone else seems interested🤗
marsbar · F
@SW-User There are a few interested. There’s never a drought. 😅

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Do it!

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@marsbar Do iiiittt! You only live once!
marsbar · F
@SW-User 😵😂

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@marsbar Push send. Do it. Do it now!
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
As a wise person told me once, “Babe Ruth holds the record for home runs. He also holds the record for being struck out most times. If you don’t swing you won’t connect”. That was years ago but still hold true. Also if you fail, hold your head high and try again another day.
marsbar · F
@SageWanderer Wise words. Thank you ☺️
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@marsbar Yes they were. And from an old football coach many, many years ago.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I'm glad you sent it and I hope he texts you back
Coldplay · 61-69, M
Honestly. I would be flattered. So I would encourage you to do it. I think this is great and I hope he accepts.
Reject · 31-35, M
Yay! I’m so happy to see this post. Do it. There’s no regrets that way. Also, too many of us keep good feelings to ourselves when reaching out with our positive vibes only makes the world better for everyone.
Trippy · F
You got this!! Go for it ❤️
Do it! Do it!

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I don't know it could go both ways. Some guys are flattered by it while others think it's a desperate move. Anyways good luck.
marsbar · F
@SW-User Thanks
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@SW-User all guys would be flattered

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@ronisme1 no all guys would not be
Do it!
Give it a whirl!
marsbar · F
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
A plumber is a good guy to know
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
@marsbar I can be all of those,
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
@marsbar and a mechanic
marsbar · F
@willyemmosher Yes, & I forgot a landscaper. 😁
test9876 · 56-60, M
Did You send it? It's better than saying 'help, i need you to come back here my toilet is clogged' lol
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Go ahead and do it. Better than always wondering if.
marsbar · F
@MrBrownstone Wondering for over an hour now. Lol

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It's nice to do it even if it's only for the excitement of it. 👌😉
marsbar · F
@SW-User Yes, like I’m a giddy school girl. 😅
Punches · 46-50, F
Just say, "...and maybe afterwards, you can give MY plumbing a good inspection and cleaning".
For real though, even if he declines for whatever reason, he will be flattered because when a woman asks out a man, it means he didn't have to do the asking so less work.
For real though, even if he declines for whatever reason, he will be flattered because when a woman asks out a man, it means he didn't have to do the asking so less work.
MtnManJohn · 61-69, M
Wishing the best for you!
marsbar · F
@MtnManJohn Thanks 😊
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
Should have asked for a visit again for some plumbing job and offered coffee to sense his moves and response to your openness first I guess.. That would have certainly helped I reckon. Good luck to you babe 😘❤
marsbar · F
@longhairedcougar I saw him on Wednesday, & on Friday I texted to say I’m getting other estimates, so he knew I wasn’t going with him. So there’s no way I could’ve asked him to come by again.
Thanks :)
Thanks :)
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@marsbar I meant before you even texted you should have thought of the other thing that I mentioned.. Maybe it would have worked for you.. After all you found yourself to be attracted to that young fellow.. Hence I thought of sharing.. Anyway happy hunting babes 😘
marsbar · F
@longhairedcougar No, I wouldn’t have done that. He already spent 1.5 hrs at my house going over all my plumbing issues, so there’s no way I could’ve asked him to come by again. There would’ve been no need, & he knew it having been here already.
fun4us2b · M
I hope it works out!

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There's no harm in asking him.
Piper · 61-69, F
The only harm in sending that perfectly unobjectionable text, is of course the possibility of rejection. Only you know if the risk of that, is worth never knowing what might have happened if you didn't.😶
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Well what's the worse that an happen!
marsbar · F
@Shutterbug You’d have a platonically good time with me Batman. 😌✌🏼
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@marsbar oh that’s disappointing 😔
marsbar · F
@Shutterbug Awww lol 🤗

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go for it girl.
life is too short for regrets
life is too short for regrets
AlyAngel · F
Good luck!
TexChik · F
😊... Aww! You should !
Byron8by7 · M
Go for it. Life is short.
Go for it!
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Do it!
Get those pipes cleaned
Get those pipes cleaned
marsbar · F
@JRVanguard You’re so bad J! 😆
@JRVanguard bad boy. lol
nowic2 · 61-69, M
I assume you have done it by now. Well done for be brave. Love to hear the response. 👍
Take a shot of liquid courage and do it. You are hella gorgeous unless he's in a relationship I'm positive he'll respond xD
Penny · 46-50, F
i wouldnt ask about the coffee until you got your answer if he's single or not.
Do a poll and go with the popular vote!
marsbar · F
@questionWeaver Too late. Lol. Plus the popular vote was to go for it.
DID HE REPLY???
Whyme · 46-50, M
Giver a go what's the worst that happens
Benjr134 · M
Well here’s to hoping his response isn’t a dick pic.
uncleshawn · 41-45, M
You've never had coffee before?
marsbar · F
@uncleshawn A few times. Lol
Poppies · 61-69, F
If you do it, tell us what happens!
EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M
Fortune favours the brave.
Good luck 😉
Good luck 😉
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
I'd say that plumber is a lucky guy.
AbbySvenz · F
Are you going to have him check your plumbing? 😏
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
@AbbySvenz She needs to be snaked.
marsbar · F
@JoyfulSilence Lol
I wish you luck with that.
passingby8 · 31-35, F
Good luck!
marsbar · F
@passingby8 Thanks 😇
😬 Good luck. 🖤🤗
marsbar · F
@JustGoneNow Thanks ☺️💗
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
Do it, nothing to lose.
You could even make it funny
Maybe end by saying "I hope you don't think I'm plumb crazy....." 🤣
You could even make it funny
Maybe end by saying "I hope you don't think I'm plumb crazy....." 🤣
marsbar · F
@JoePourMan Lol. Too late. Already sent.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Very nice. I hope it happens for you
marsbar · F
@Eddiesolds Thanks 😁
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@marsbar you're welcome Mars 🤗
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