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Chatting with a stranger is all fun and games till they actually bought the ticket to see you.

Last year somewhere around August, I kinda invited a guy over to my place with his wife. He is 9000+ miles away from me and I didn't expect him to actually come😥. I have no problem with that but he's coming alone. Oh gosh, this isn't funny now 😐
SweetMae · 70-79, F
It is time you told him how you feel
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SweetMae yea...it's the only way 😓
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SW-User
Not just not fun... dangerous. Why would he go without his wife? Sheisty. Shut him down.
SW-User
Don’t put yourself in that potential position at all . Be safe . @Darkmare
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User Sure I'll. Thanks :)
SW-User
You’re welcome. :)@Darkmare
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Your invitation included his wife. Tell him bring her or don’t come at all. That should stifle any ill-intentions. But be prepared for him to give you a story that they are breaking up or some such line.
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@cherokeepatti oh yes. Just hope he doesn't bring a fake wife. Lol
xixgun · M
You made your bed, now you have to lie in it.
This is where you get to tell him you were full of shit OR put a lock on your bedroom door (on the inside)
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@xixgun haha.. locks and pepper sprays. Lots of em😅
xixgun · M
@Darkmare Don't forget the 12 gauge under the bed.
A guy from EP came to see me. I thought it was kind of deranged bc we were not speaking at that point & he lived 6 states away.
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@DarlingSelah EP... Good times😉
Luvbuttz · M
@DarlingSelah how long did he stay
@Luvbuttz no clue. I yellled at him & he cried. I guess he went back home...?
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Coming without his wife says one of two things to me. Either he is cheating on her, or she's a complete fabrication. If you do meet him (I wouldn't) ask to talk to his wife on the phone. If I'm right, he'll make an excuse as to why you can't. At that point, you should leave.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Darkmare for sure in public, and taking your husband with you sounds good too. What is this guy expecting, or what does he think may happen?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte hmm... I'm not sure. He seems like a good decent guy till he bought the tickets without asking me (since he wants to meet up).
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Darkmare that level of eagerness without getting consent for a visit is a big red flag to me.
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
So was it really his wife you were interested in, not him?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Ummmmm you sure he not a serial killer?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@plungesponge What if I'm the serial killer? 😎
Luvbuttz · M
If he gets touchy feely.... kick him in the nads!
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@Luvbuttz haha sure!
SW-User
You gave him your address?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User gosh no!
SW-User
I did this and it was best and worse thing I ever did
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User I'm not sure how to react to that. Lol. It's like good news and bad news at the same time 😅
SW-User
@Darkmare hahaha it’s a long story I just met at user on here and it went a little pear shaped but i hope yours goes well and STAY SAFE and sleep with one eye open 😂
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User Hahaha... oh dear... this is scary now. What have I done🙈
SW-User
He is cheating on his wife or what?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User I don't know yet. It was a decent chat all along so I'm pretty sure I didn't lead him on to that direction. Oh dear😓
SW-User
@Darkmare Be careful. Don’t meet him alone.
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@SW-User Sure, I will😉
Luvbuttz · M
Wait... so how long is he supposed to stay?
Darkmare · 36-40, F
@Luvbuttz He said a week. I'm not going to have him here at my place. Too scary.
Luvbuttz · M
@Darkmare a week? Hes leaving his wife for a week? To visit you? Sounds creepy
wintersecret · 41-45, M
wow that much miles he traveled to meet you.

Great Guy

 
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