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I Had Some Bad Experiences In Friendships And Dating Relations

What should I do? I’ve been with this guy for almost 3 years we broke up after I found him with another girl in our bed in our house I feel hurt and betrayed and I don’t know what to do? To some people 3 years get over yourself but I can’t I’ve known this guy for 8 years we are best friends for that long and got together he knew me inside and out and I knew him inside and out I feel very upset :(
I think one of the most upsetting factors in a situation like this is realizing you didn’t know him inside and out - I mean, would you have predicted he would have another woman in your bed?

Cheating is bad enough - but to cheat in a way that makes it possible for you to catch him in the act is such a careless, casual way to treat you. His selfish impulses were more important to him than your broken heart.

Sometimes I think we kid ourselves into staying because we’ve invested so much time and emotion, the idea of starting over is just exhausting.

Have you broken up, or are you still deciding?
Hope70 · F
I just got out of a 5 year relationship. It's hard to start over. But letting go and starting again brings a new chapter to find some who deserves you and will respect you. When you close that door another one opens. Move on and be strong, work on yourself and don't regret it. If it was met to be you wouldn't be here right now. Hold your head high and believe in yourself.
helenS · 36-40, F
Hey, I don't know who you are, but is it really that terrible if he picks another flower from time to time?
LadyLynn · F
Run like the wind and work on your self-esteem and take care of you. Leave that be.
SW-User
I'm sorry you went through this. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
He needs to be removed from your life☹️
It’s not easy but that relationship wasn’t meant to be. Not to say you can’t stay just friends, but for the sake of your feelings, nothing more
SW-User
Run.. From my experience people will treat you like shit and not give it a second thought. There is no such thing as love, sorry to break it to you

 
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