Guuurl, I'm (kind of) a caregiver too. It's not their fault they 'overreact'... They're old and frightened, especially with how so many people think they're invalid/useless/dumb due to age. :<
I know that but he does this often for attention. We have cared for him for 2 years, we can tell when hes faking and when he has an actual issue. Hes a hypochondriac, loves the attention that comes with any issue. Hes a bad person. Always has been. Cant deny him a doctor because I think hes faking though. That would be abuse. His age has little to do with his awful personality and habits. @JupiterDreams