@GlitterBug Kind of the opposite for us, with my wife having worked in the medical field she avoids going to the hospital or even letting her doctors know she is having any issues. A lot of times I have to notice things or she won't tell me. I do fully understand your frustrations though.
@GlitterBug I'm that way as well most of the time. Hard to know what is more frustrating, taking care of someone who doesn't let you know what is wrong or someone who thinks something is wrong even when it isn't.