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I Am a Caregiver

This one is nasty, you鈥檝e been warned. 馃あ

My great grandfather was eating dinner, we special prepare his meals so it鈥檚 usually only one serving.
I鈥檓 assuming a noodle got stuck in his throat. So he starts gagging, and then starts vomiting. Into his food. Long gooey strands of mucus mostly. Again, into his food.
He insists he鈥檚 fine, I gave him a bucket and asked what he wanted me to make instead. He asked for a minute.
I gave him the time he needed to sort that out.
Then he tells me his food is fine. AND CONTINUES TO EAT IT! The very same food he just puked in. So I insist, please for the love of god let me make you something else.
Nope. Then he eats it with his fingers.
There something wrong with your fork?
No, it鈥檚 just easier this way.
Did I mention he was touching his vomit with said fingers? Oh god. 馃あ 馃ぎ Send help.

He鈥檚 of sound mind. I can鈥檛 force him to do anything. But that was so gross I couldn鈥檛 be in the same room without gagging. And I have a high threshold there.
xixgunM
Newsflash, that sound mind, has become questionable.
xixgunM
GlitterBug22-25, F
Right. He鈥檚 in heart failure, so considering that he鈥檚 in the best health he can be. We regularly have nurses coming to our home as well, if that's any reassurance. They were made aware of that event. Not sure what else to tell you here.
@xixgun
xixgunM
@GlitterBug Me being aware is irrelevant. Wish him and you the best
SW-User
Does he have dementia? Not trying to be rude or anything but my grandma was getting that and she didn鈥檛 even know who my dad was and who his gf was. I鈥檓 asking as people with dementia often do strange or gross things without realising it.
GlitterBug22-25, F
He doesn鈥檛, that鈥檚 why I said he鈥檚 of sound mind. He鈥檚 always been gross and weird.
@SW-User
gmatthewb51-55, M
That must have been horrible for you to watch. There really are few things worse that the feeling of being helpless while watching someone do something like that and knowing that it would only make things worse if you do what you feel you need to.
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deadgerbil22-25
omg, that's pretty graphic. How old is he? lol
GlitterBug22-25, F
85. My discription here is not even
close to how gross it was irl. @deadgerbil
deadgerbil22-25
@GlitterBug Getting up there lol! My grandfather is 75 馃槵

I could only imagine how nasty that must have been.
SW-User
Maybe he doesnt want to be a bother?
GlitterBug22-25, F
That definitely not the case. @SW-User
SW-User
@GlitterBug didnt say he actually was a bother. I dont mean to imply he is, either.
midnightsun26-30, M
I'm...eating right now
GlitterBug22-25, F
So sorry. lmao bet you鈥檙e not so hungry anymore, huh?
@midnightsun

 
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