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I just don't understand why people can't take a debate seriously.

They start an argument with you, and then can't stick to it. They have to call you names and try to attack you personally instead of attacking your argument. And then sometimes they even turn around and accuse you of doing the name calling. I don't get it.
MethDozer · M Best Comment
There's two camps as I see it.

Some who just aren't emotionally invested or care enough to rant on and on in a debate over an issue and don't feel it's worth their energy.

Then there's the big one that just hates anything that doesn't fit their biased narrative and just want to throw judgemental temper-tantrums towards any deviation of there view.
Also there are people who try and debate principles which are not pragmatic and not debates on facts.


I just had someone do the exact thing you mention. Accuse me of name calling when not once the entire time did I us one insult or call the person any names.
MethDozer · M
BA?
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]you know when they start attacking you personally that they know they have lost the debate [/c]
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@PlumBerries A few minutes ago I was arguing politics and the other person called me a commie, uneducated, irrational, and disgusting. And then accused me of name calling because I brought up a time when she called me a faggot.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@BlueMetalChick [c=#7700B2]she sounds pretty pathetic. I got called all sorts of names here last night when in a debate over Donald trump and that mass shooter of most recent. [/c]
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
@PlumBerries So correct
in10RjFox · M
And you say you never do it ..
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox Lemme give you an example. Last time I resorted to insulting someone in a debate, it was an argument about whether Halo was better than Mass Effect. Is that not pretty blatant?
in10RjFox · M
@BlueMetalChick silly subject to argue upon .. other than insults nothing can be exchanged ..
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox That's my point.
it's called the ad hominem fallacy: elementary-level debating skills
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
It doesn't matter how they shut you up but if they can they have won, simple
lightningblue · 26-30, M
on SW I normally cant
but I just leave or ignore I dont delete
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Avoid politics, stick to ice cream. Great job taco kat
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe

The tl;dr version is that your brain reacts to attacks on your ideas the way it does to physical attacks. So you get an intense, emotional response unless you've kind of trained yourself to deal with cognitive backfire.

And I find the stupider the belief, the stronger the reaction.
I love your debates.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@DarlingSelah That makes two of us 💙
TacoCat · 22-25, M
Let's have a debate about the best ice cream flavor
MethDozer · M
@BlueMetalChick Mint Chocolate chip must be Serbian Slav for pistachio.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MethDozer Who in their right mind would flavor ice cream like a nut?
MethDozer · M
@BlueMetalChick I think it was the dagos.
SW-User
They need to grow up
I think your account has been hacked.
Generally I think you're awesome but the space X thing made me mad
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BiasForAction It made me mad to know you trust corporate interest and the military industrial complex more than you trust scientific purity.
@BlueMetalChick That would have been a better response than saying I should be shot. I suspect you just talk that way to everyone--you mean nothing by it--but to me it is not civil discourse and it rather detracts from your argument.
GunSmoke9 · 56-60, M
I stopped talking politics with a co worker. His idea of a debate is to make a point then walk away laughing.
❄ s again? Your having fun lol
SW-User
Debates have always been hard for me
but Sometimes I get in a mood where I enjoy it

I just usually don't find pleasure like "omg i don't want to explain this to you"
I'd rather go write or cook or something

 
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