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Told him I want to break up with him.

I am so tired with the whole thing of breaking up and falling back into a new love, the excitements, the worries, all of it.
I avoided to break up since I was afraid of being alone, because I tend to be a very lonely and detached person and he was a connection to the world for me.
But he constantly failed to respect me and put me high in his hierarchy of things. He being a cynic that likes a fast paced life, not my preferances exactly.
I am worried that by being so picky I will end up alone.
But this guy wasn't for me.
I don't know if I will manage to keep my word and not fall back to him in the next days.
Wish me strength 馃崄馃崅
Grateful4youM
You are spot on exactly where you are. Breaking through the oft- times addiction to a relationship is harder than any drug.

I see that you are feeling vulnerable, afraid of regressing back, BUT you realize it and many don't.

Your words here prove exactly how intact you really are. Sharing this I'm sure is going to help others. I have no worries you'll make it hon.

Jeep us updated please.
elafina36-40, F
@Grateful4you thank you for your response. I am indeed conscious as to where I am at.
I can see the potential in him, he is a gifted person. But he still has a lot of layers to unravel. Perhaps so do I?
Well, instead of doubting, better stick to what I feel. I need focus, clarity, stability and he is a mess that brings me chaos and more chaos. He is a guy with good intentions but overly ambitious that fails to appreciate the present, and I am included there.
Grateful4youM
@elafina I'm sure you've heard which road is paved with his good intentions and the final destination (?) I no longer tolerate negativity. Seek to be happy and strive each day to make others happy, in this you'll find your source of on-going focus. As we said in the 60's, "Keep on truckin'"

You'll be fine. (((HUGS)))
elafina36-40, F
@Grateful4you thank you 馃挄
Gusman61-69, M
Good luck. Be strong, think about what is right for you.
elafina36-40, F
@Gusman thank you, I need to

 
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