Why do people fall in love with the person who ignores them the most? It's strange isn't it? We...

SW-User

However that's also about level of self belief and fear of commitment
Unavailability though painful can be easier to handle than facing one's own issues
And being unavailable, a fantasy of perfection can be kept alive

SW-User

I think, we lost our sense of self respect being honestly involved and they see it as space to play with us. Keep the walls high. Always.

SStarfish ·

Because some people are nuts and annoying .. Er i mean contrary beyond reason :) or a glutton for punishment or secretly hate themselves or are just plain ungrateful or like to make their life difficult.. Idk :)

butterfly1013 · 26-30, F

That is a good question actually, but I'll go on to say that we don't always get to choose who we fall for or who we have a connection with and sometimes it is the forbidden fruit.

Anopenheart · 51-55, M

We all crave a resolution to what is empty or not working in our lives. We want what we cannot have. Basically we usually marry the unresolved issues with our parents.