I Have A Random Thought

It's impossible to please everyone, or be liked by everyone, unless you're willing to turn into a complete doormat who will constantly defer to others, and let them take advantage and walk all over you all the time(figuratively speaking). I don't want to be that way, so I'm trying to be Ok with the fact that not everyone will like me all the time. Some people might even hate me. But that's Ok. it doesn't mean I'm the one with the problem.

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Gothdoll69 · 22-25, F

Yeah that's very true but I guess you still have to sometimes confide to society's rules. I mean like with many jobs still dictate how you look etc so no matter how much we want to do whatever the fuck we want we still can't

SW-User

@Gothdoll69 Yes, that's true. But I was thinking more along the lines of social interactions, or having certain opinions about things. Obviously there are certain laws and ethics in society that we shouldn't violate.

Gothdoll69 · 22-25, F

@SW-User yeah fair enough. I totally agree with you in that case then. Not giving a fuck and stopping being afraid to be myself was the best thing I ever did. Admittedly I lost a few mates but it taught me who my real ones were an it felt so good standing up for what I believe in.

SoFine · 46-50, F

How you be in you - that is how at home you are in you as you, counts for so much.

So many are so engrossed in their life drama, they are the main feature, in them and about them, so never give your time to worry if they like you or not.

Be at home in you, be your happy place.

Be you....

fun4us2b · M

They say the sure way to failure is to try to please everyone...

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