It all gets to be bullshit on here. People act like middle school kids on this site and their treatment of others says a lot about who they really are in the outside world.
You know... This... This is precisely what bothers me with certain "popular" people.
THEY do wrong THEY know it is wrong, regardless of the reason. THEY get people sticking up for them - because... its them and they "are going through a lot".
Yeah... I'm dealing with the loss of a close friend of mine just over a week ago, my cousin passed away today and I'm still dealing with getting my illnesses diagnosed. I'm going through a lot, too... but, you know, I've never been rude enough to warrant a warning banner on my profile or even have my entire account suspended.
Wrong is wrong, no matter who you are or how popular you might be.
Using a vendetta as a reason to mass report a member and get their account closed is just wrong, too... but I know that it happens and it happens right here on SW.
It's time that we were all adults here and stopped being so petty because it affects people... it affects people in ways that you wouldn't think it would and we need to accept our punishment as the men and women that we claim to be.
Sometimes those posts can be cathartic. Especially if the person in question is nasty and hateful and is never accountable for their behavior (as in this case).
Against TOS is against TOS. But I understand why these posts happen and why people like responding to them.
@HootyTheNightOwl lolz, right? They all knew exactly what they were doing and saying and it went on for hours and hours. UTTER BS and no excuse.
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@HootyTheNightOwl Everyone that posted something derogatory bout her should have got a warning, if ya ask me. She and I aren't even friends in case anyone thinks otherwise. I just hate that childish shit that goes total against TOS.
@SW-User It's not just that, though - let's say that you are the one who was hurt by a member... how would you feel about seeing posts asking for this person and calling them "good" for days afterwards???
If they are really that popular and "good" then they wouldn't have so much time to be tearing others down to the point where they got suspended in the first place...
I think sometimes people get carried away, they forget that the user is a real person with real feelings. I think fair enough to say that you blocked a user but to use the post to attack them is just bullying.
@JustGoneNow Nice one. If someone is giving "what they get", using the excuse of they were treated bad, they are exactly like that person, no different
@SW-User I have feelings about people based on what they have done to me or people I care about but everyone is the hero of their own story and sometimes the full truth is more complicated than just my own perspective on it. Spewing hate on hate just makes the world that much of a colder place. I refuse to be party to it. It’s one thing to get mad momentarily in the heat of the moment. Premeditated hatred is different.
@ChemDawg She let me know. I’m sorry I’m so weird about PM. It’s not personal. You’ve always been a kind friend. I just have a lot of issues and my PM list is super small on purpose. Just a few that I can trust to handle my episodes.
