Do you know any kids who get the belt from the parents?

The belt was the most used spanking implement at my home. I feared it all my childhood and as a teen (aka it was efective). I got it since I was 17/18 years old.

Lawrence, mostly A's is excellent. Mum and Dad should be pleased and proud of you. I used not to do very well in PE. I was told that I should have done better. The PE teacher had a cane.
Sleep well. It's nearly midnight and I am going to bed, just like you. We can talk again tomorrow. Don't be sad. To me you're a good boy, even though you may be naughty now and again.
Good night, Lawrence.
Ernest.

Ernest Sir,

Your responses to the tings I have spoken of is wonderful and what you say about English really does touch me. But I am a naughty boy, sorry little boy. I bet you would make a superb 'dad'.

I have a feeling my tutor will be very very strict, Its ages since Ive seen a smile on my dad's face. The top floor of our house is being prepared.

I don't have a problem with being punished if I have misbehaved. But, I don't
as yet know what lessons I am having to do

erik2000 depends on what we did my mom determines swats on what you did. constantly forgetting chore may get you 3 but something like getting in trouble at homeschool coop which my 9 year old sister is notorious might get you 5 for doing. but stuff like being late for curfew for us older kids (city wide curfew so we could actually get in legal trouble) or like fighting physically for the younger will get you 10.

I have been informed by daddy that my new tutor is moving in on Saturday. I will start lessons at 7.30 sharp on Monday morning. Saturday will be a school day till 12. Sunday I am being enrolled in a sunday school. The one his son attends. It is only small but by all accounts very strict and gives lots of homework. Have to go now, mom is taking me for a haircut.

I agree with parents who spank their sons until 18 or 21 years of age. Boys can turn evil if not disciplined hard enough. They need severe punishments with a belt or a whip on their naked backside. You should be happy if your parents apply such punishment.

You are such a polite little boy, Lawrence, a really good boy.😊 I think 7pm is early for an eighteen year old, and for a thirteen year old. I used to have a 7pm bedtime when I was eleven. At thirteen I was at boarding school, we went to bed at 8:30pm.
But your mum and daddy probably know what is best for you better than I do.
I like it that you call me Ernest.

Hello, Lawrence,
Thank you for all those messages and your kind words about me. I try to be gentle and understanding. I don't want to undermine anything your daddy does for your good.
It's only natural for a twelve year old to get up to mischief sometimes. I didn't think your being naughty would do anyone any harm. I am glad to know you, good but naughty little boy.
That was interesting about your nan.
I have a different perspective on body hair from your daddy, as I quite like it. It began to appear when I was twelve, so still a naughty little boy myself.
Having heard about your tutor and your school schedule, I'd be scared to death myself. There will not be much time for you to be naughty; but, if you are like me when I was a little boy, you will find the chances somehow.
I hope you are having a happy day, you naughty little boy. 😇
ernestcharles

Hello, Lawrence,
I expect you have gone to bed now. I hope you are peacefully asleep. I do not want to insist on anything, but, if you find yourself saying 'Sir' I'm not going to get cross. It will be easier to talk when there is private messaging.
Do you like the new shirts and shorts Mum is buying for you. As you are eighteen, no one can be in loco parentis over you, but Dad seems to have made those arrangements.
A whole morning in church could be horribly boring. You need some free time to do the things you like to do. I went to Sunday school, but it was only an hour and our woman teacher was really nice.
Sleep well then, and perhaps we'll chat again tomorrow if you want to. I am interested in what you tell me. If you leave similar worlds we shan't be able to talk to each other.
Ernest

@sassygirl15: Even when you get the paddle, it is only a light bruise or that leaves marks for a longer time?

@Lawrence: Yes, I am also kept in shorts, and also legs hurt more in my experience.

@cordin we have a 19 year old border my stepdads nephew. He is stating here to save money while in college even he can get the belt in necessary

I talked to many kids from UK who get the belt or the cane and it leaves marks on them so I think not all parents stopped it.

Ernest my friend I truly appreciate your comments, always so sincere and moderate. I will truly have to work hard at school. But on june 15th I start being homeschooled. Now this is a little complex. My nan in her will left a substantial amount of money and property to me when I reach 25. She further stipulated if I left full time education before 25 then the money and property should be sold at auction. Profits to go to the RSPCA.

and many people still use more than a hand they just make sure they dont leave marks where they can be seen. seriously your hand aint gonna work on a kid older than like 6, and actually your hand is worse on a behind than like a plastic kitchen spoon. thats what my mom uses on the younger kids. in the state of georgia where i live spanking is legal for parents. who can also allow their daycares, babysitters and schools to use corporal punishment on their children age 2 through 18 but counties can actually pass laws not allowing it in public schools. this right has been put forward to the supreme court who upheld a parents right to this as its not against the constitutions cruel and unusual punishment.

Yes because my parents select my friends based on the criteria I live by.
BTW I wore short trousers all through school. I was the only boy in shorts
in my last two years at school.

I hesitate to say this but I am expected to play with toys, such as cars, trucks, lego, and other stuff geared for 10 and under kids. My dad built me a gas station, fire station and a shopping mall. I can hear you laughing but I swear it is true, I also swear I actually do play with these toys.

Hello, Lawrence,
Thank you for your thoughtful reply. There is no need to say 'Sir', unless you want to.
You say you are a naughty little boy, but you have been a good boy all the time we've been chatting this evening. I don't know whether I'd make a superb dad. I haven't any children. There you see, 'superb' is a word a clever boy would use.🌻
I'm sorry that your dad is sad; but, even if your tutor is strict, he will not be allowed to spank you, though spanking is not really the right word for the punishment you get.
You are very accepting of your punishment. I should've been very angry if I'd had the cane when I was eighteen. They didn't even use it at school then.
I hope your dad chooses lessons you will enjoy doing. Has he asked you?
There. Sorry that was a long message. 🤗
Ernest

Lawrence, I think it is. Why would you wear diapers at 18? Diapers is for babies who don't know how to use the toilet. Even if you look like 13 that is too old for diapers.

Erik my bedtime is much earlier than yours. At the moment I don't have a computer but my friend who I am staying with is going to get me something, either a laptop or tablet. My parents would go absolutely ballistic if they knew I had a computer. I am in bed by 7pm latest. Unlike you I am not allowed out on my own except to go to the local store.

Do you get bathed by parents?
I have never ever been up this late before. My friend is being so kind, although I have been in my pyjama for hours.

I will have to find a way to keep my laptop safe and out of site of my parents. Especially since I have joined this site and met some lovely people like you erik

Erik
I look forward to when we can send private messages on here. I hope you will remain my friend. I no longer attend state school but my parents are looking for a tutor for me. However they want someone more like a housemaster from a private school and possibly with a military background. He will effectively be my 'governor'. I hate the idea but my parents are likely to be going overseas without me. I know full well they are looking for a strict person who is not afraid of using corporal punishment.

Lawrence, you may not be at university, and you may be a naughty little boy, but you are not thick. You write English very well, with a mature narrative style. Your spelling is excellent and you write well formed sentences. You are more clever than you think.🙂
I can't think of anything that you might do that might deserve the belt or an early bedtime. I stopped getting the cane when I was fifteen, and you are three years older than that.
It is nice that daddy plays with you, but some computer games would be good, and some friends of your own age. You probably have friends at college. That must be good.
When your tutor comes the spankings will stop I hope.
Do you have nice dreams? 🎮
Sleep well.
Ernest.

enellie16

Thank you for your kind comments. I have absolutely no choice about wearing shorts summer or winter. In the winter I wear corduroy as they are warmer. I am 18 but if you saw me you would think I as 12/13. My parents are strict and hate the idea of me being exposed to all the things teenagers get up to. So, they treat me as a little boy. I know no different. I am only on the computer because I am staying with a family friend whilst my parents are away. Normally I'd be in bed by 7. So being up this late is a real treat.

Thank you, Lawrence18, for your reply. I hope you did not think I was being rude about your parents. I'd respectfully say, though, that whatever the appearances you are not 13. Perhaps I expressed myself badly because I know how much a belt hurts and did not like the idea of you getting it. I want to say something about it being good to love your parents, but cannot think of a sentence that would not sound patronising.

Aww Ernest thank you for your extremely kind comments,
Please call me a little boy, because that is what I am. Mummy and Daddy say so every single day. I play with toys. Daddy buys me lego and cars and mecanno. I am not allowed anything for a boy over 10/11. Ernest I don't mind. I will happily play with my toys in my play area at home. Daddy sometimes join me when I am playing with lego.

Ernest the one thing I desperately hate is when daddy gets me ready for bed and makes me say goodnight to guests.

Ernest I doubut daddy will ever let me stay up beyond 7.
I suppose 7 is very late and little boys should be in bed.

happend to me once... dont ever want that to happen again.

well i was just in the next town but i could been easily in the city were that could have been extremely dangerous we were there for 3 hours, because my mom was at home with the lil kids. we dont have a vechile that can fit all of us. my stepdad is searching for a 15 passenger van at a good price currently. jake and jeffrey was at work. finally after his class johnny came and broght us a jack. at which time we realized i ran over a knife somewhere

I was got the belt from dad when i was 8 years old to 20 years old.

Awww enellie16 you clearly are a caring young lady.

After years of wearing short trousers the cold is insignificant. I am used to it. As to the length of my shorts most have no more than a 5" inside leg. That means mid thigh. I do however have much shorter shorts, my parents refer to them as play shorts. I have just had to beg my 'babysitter' to allow me to stay on the computer. I have been in my pyjamas for ages.

I really don't want to walk sway from this site.
I am about to get a strict tutor. My life will be even more disciplined than it is now.. I will NOT be allowed to do anything on my own. I look to folk like you ernest to tell me things. I am a little boy but I want someone to talk to me about childish stories. It will have to wait until PM is working

Hello, Lawrence,
I'm sorry that you get the belt and cane so often. 7am till 3:30pm is a very long day. You will need to be up early. 30 minutes for lunch sounds reasonable, and a break in the morning and the afternoon would be good.
'Unbeknown' is a good word.
I hope you have a good day.
Ernest

You are younger bthan me but clearly much much grown up. I don't have many friends because mum and dad are extremely strict on friends. My best friend is 10. I don't mind mummy and daddy selecting my friends. I love to play with my train set and scalextric.Daddy has to be present but I love to see the trains whizz past.

Lawrence Sorry I was busy with homework this evenig. I need to do my best cos I don't want a bad report card like last year. I hope your tutor will be nice. I don't really what a tutor does cos I never talked to anybody who had one. Please tell me when you will have the tutor how it goes.

Ernestcharles
I must thank you for your splendid comments I am a naughty boy honestly. I get up to all sorts of mischief. But Nothing that will hurt anyone. I maybe 18 in eyes of the law but I really am 12 or so. Sir I love the way you use words.
I am scared to death about my new tutor. Mom and daddy want me to be a truly little boy before I go out to see them.

Daddy uses the belt and cane on me lots. He really lays into me and I always cry. Until my tutor takes over at home I have to attend school again. Unbeknown to me my daddy has organised for my school day to start at 7am and finish at 3.30. No morning or afternoon breaks and 30minutes for lunch. Even I think 30mins is way too long, What do you think Eric? What sort of shorts do you wear to school? I bet they are long shorts. Are they wide leg openings to make leg slapping easier?

Ernestcharles

Thank you. Daddy tells me daily I am a little boy. If you were to see me you would honestly think I am 13. My life revolves around being a 'Little boy'.
I cannot do anything without permission. But, I love my parents very much.

The ones I know tend to be angry people. Friendly and nice perhaps, but angry. Disciplining your children does not need to mean hitting them with objects. This is a vile thing to do.
I've never had a creditor come to my home and beat me because I was late on a payment. I suspect that hitting my kids because they are late getting home or have not done their chores or have dome something careless would be just as unreasonable.

Erik, I am living on my nerves cos dad thinks I have no access to my laptop. I have been in bed since 7pm. I seem to have responded to a lot of your stories etc. I wish we lived closer. It is 5 minutes to 9 here in the UK. Well beyond my bedtime.

Ernest I do think I should call you Sir. But you have to INSIST I do. You are clearly a very caring man. I will say loads more when private messaging is available.

My tutor will have total in loco parentis powers over me. And yes, he will be allowed to spank me. Mum has been frantically buying shorts and shirts for me. I have to go for a sunday school measurement on Friday. Mom says my tutor wants me to attend sunday school. School starts at 8am. !0 -11am is church, then till 1.30pm is school. Hate it. Bet you don't have to go sunday school erik

Getting the belt made me who I am today

@sassygirl: Yes, younger children usually get into more trouble, but my parents started to punih me on weekends for the whole week's misbehavior when I started school at 6. Before that, when I was in kindergarten, rarely I got the belt even twice a day.

my parents are strict but not that strict. the younger children do get in trouble more but thats because they are younger if you think back we all got in trouble more than. i may get it 1 or 2 times a month.

Ernest, I am a naughty boy who deserves to be punished. I also very much deserve early bedtimes. Sir. I am 18 but nowhere near an adult. I don't go to school anymore but do attend college. Not a university. I am too thick to be in university but as you all know I am going to have a tutor very soon

Lawrence18, thank you for another kind reply. Of course, I cannot argue with you when you talk about yourself. You must be having an early night, or perhaps it's later than 6:30pm where you are. Sleep well anyway.

enellie16

Aww it is so sweet of you to say the things you did. Please don't feel sorry for me.
Yes I ask for long pants very often. But I get the same answer 'All in good time' 'You are too young for long trousers'
Yes I am short. Have a proper little boys haircut with a parting.

enellie16

I get teased when my marks are seen below the hemline of my shorts. To be fair they are generally hand slapping marks. Dad will cane my sit spots but not my thighs. He only uses his lrge hands or slipper on my thighs. Hurts like hell and yes I always cry

Erik my friend. I have not heard much from you today. I must go to bed now. I cannot risk my daddy finding my laptop. Somewhere in this network I have told about my tutor. Are you interested? Nah .... no one is. I'm gonna leave similarorlds

@enellie16: Yes, I am the only one in shorts in the school and also to get the belt or the cane. Some kids got spanked with hand when they were younger but not any more. I got used to the cold, I can feel it sometimes but it is ok. My shorts go to my mid thighs, like on my profile pic.

@enellie: I get spanked usually every weekend, for all the things I did during the week.
I know that some girls like that I wear shorts all year haha.

@lawrence: I have to be at home at 6,30 for dinner or sometimes at 7. My bedtime is at 10 but I use my laptop after that (I have my own room so they can't see it haha).
You?

I say an awful lot in response to questions and answers. It is NOT recciproated. So. I am going to walk away from this site. Ishould have been in bed hours ago. Goodbye and thank you to everyone who took the time and trouble to speak to me
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@Lawrence. If you are 18 yo you are the only to meditate if you deserve it or not. I think that a lad (almost a YA) should be aware about his faults and their consequences.

Lawrence, sorry if I sounded like that, but no, I know that you can't do anything if your parents are strict. I was just suprised that they treat you like a small boy and feel sorry for you. I didn't want to make fun of you or something like that.