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I Have Experienced Loss

I lost my fiancé about a year ago. It’ll be a full year in a few weeks and I feel so sad. I go out and drink and party and do stuff with people and it’s all fun. But I just can’t seem to feel the same kind of happy that I felt when I was with him. He was my everything and instead of it getting easier everyday, I feel like it’s getting harder being without him. Whenever anyone asks how I’m doing or coping I say I’m doing well or I’m fine, in hopes that maybe if I say it enough times I will be.

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luv2fly352 · 70-79, M

There is hope and i do understand.When my beloved wife passed away 8 years ago at the young age of 62 the emptiness,grief,sorrow was numbing at times.It is a lonely path no matter how many well meaning supporters one has.From habit,i still sleep on what was my side of the bed and our little rescue dog always continued to sleep on her mommy's side of the bed until she passed away a year ago.All my family and friends have all passed on except for one,but one learns to put things in perspective;grateful for just having had them in our lives even though it was briefly and there will always be far more questions than answers,but this too is life.I wish you all the very best.You will never be the same,but you will heal over time.I survived and so will you.I'm a better person for having them in my life,and so are you.Take care!

updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well it will take some time to over come the loss it not something you get over just like that. But just think what he would wanted you to do he would not want you to suffer but to move on you can never forget him because he is in your heart.

Mugin16 · 46-50, M

Don't put yourself down. You lost the person with whom you wanted to spend the rest of your live. Of course that is hard to overcome. I guess he has taken a part of your heart with you and you will always miss him - at least a bit. 🤗

lasergraph · 70-79, M

Grief is hard and everyone experiences it differently. It eventually gets better but there is no quick fix. Good luck.

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

Awwww. I'm sincerely sorry :( . *hugs* if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here. I can be a friend.

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

why you lost?

Lana24 · 26-30, F

@unknownpoetx he died of an overdose.

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

@Lana24 do you do drugs?

Lana24 · 26-30, F

@unknownpoetx not anymore.

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