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To be honest... this situation happened to me.
In my opinion. It is the worst feeling ever. They died too soon and I still feel this money is theirs. I still save it and hold it because that is what mom did.
I didn't need it. I didn't want it. But if I give it all away, I know that's not what mom would have wanted (or she would have done it).
I know it's all in my head but I would have rather had them for 10 more years than this burden.
In my opinion. It is the worst feeling ever. They died too soon and I still feel this money is theirs. I still save it and hold it because that is what mom did.
I didn't need it. I didn't want it. But if I give it all away, I know that's not what mom would have wanted (or she would have done it).
I know it's all in my head but I would have rather had them for 10 more years than this burden.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Very similar situation.
Dad passed in 2014, mom in 2016.@SW-User
Dad passed in 2014, mom in 2016.@SW-User
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@AthrillatheHunt 2015,2016 for me.
I don't think my sister and I will ever go on a visit together without rehashing all the things we consider we did wrong.
I don't think my sister and I will ever go on a visit together without rehashing all the things we consider we did wrong.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Same. My sister and I are 15 months apart.@SW-User