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I Havent Hit Puberty Yet

i feel a little weird and worry about it because it seems like all the girls my age did except me. i tried to get my mom to take me to the doctor but she says to just wait :(
Sierra14 · 16-17, F
Its so embarrasing I started to lie to people and say I did even though they can see I'm still flat as a board
teechme · 18-21, F
@Sierra14 I know exactly what that is like
Take your time, there is no rush.
I felt the same way at your age. As awful as it sounds, it's completely normal. You're at a stage in your life where you coming to terms with where you fit in and how. It's a hard place to exist. And there's a lot of pressure on looks and everything. But here's a little secret, all of the girls around you are just as confused as you! Some just hide it better. Even if you still feeling awkward by the time you're 16/17, don't worry. Some people figure it all out before they graduate, others a little later on. Most people don't really understand who they are until they're 25 or so. And a lot of people are still figuring it out after that! Just don't be too hard on yourself. Try to focus on the things in your life that make you happy and you feel grateful for. And don't feel pressured to figure out who you are/where you belong. Just be you. Do what you enjoy. Laugh with your friends. Research things that interest you. Get involved with the life around you. It all has a way of working itself out until one day you realize you're really passionate about one thing or another. And hey, you can always ask your friends about stuff. Mutual weirdness brings the best people together, don't you know!
Anneliese · 22-25, F
I have friends who just hit puberty at 16! Don't worry, yours will definitely come :) And actually, be glad it's taking a longer time... Some things are less troublesome without puberty in your life, you'll know what I mean when you have it XD

But I understand that when you don't have it and your friends do, you'll feel like you want it to come. Just be patient, it will, and actually enjoy the remaining time you have before it hits ^_^
18xCats · F
Don't worry every girl is on her own schedule. My true age is in your age range and I haven't hit puberty yet.
teri99 · 22-25, F
I started later than my friends which was like embarrassing but it's fine now. You will catch them up and trust me you do not want to start periods!
ddmagnum · 31-35, M
You will eventually, and as soon as it starts you'll want it to be over
teechme · 18-21, F
thank you anneliese
teechme · 18-21, F
teechme · 18-21, F
thanks cherry
TheEight · 36-40, M
Well, if you are 13-14, yea wait. If you are 15 than I would agree. You should go and see a doctor just as a check up.

 
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