I Hate Being Gaslighted

My mom everyday.

"Everyone is so mean to me nobody helps me. I'm so stressed out. Everyone in this house is so rude to me. Nobody cares about me. I wish I could just disappear. I think your sister is your dads favorite."

Me: how about I just disappear if I make your life so bad then.

Mom: "why do you say stupid things like that you sound stupid."

Mom again: everyone is so mean to me and treats me terrible. Everyone is so disrespectful...."... Did you wash your hands?"

Me "YEAH!"

Mom: "why are you talking like that?"

Me: maybe because I'm tired of you saying I'm such a bad person all the time and I'm such a mean person. I'm not a bad person and I'm not a mean person."

Mom: I never say that. I just told you to wash your hands because I don't like dirty hands touching lunch meat."

Me: "no you say that every day I'm not a bad person."

Mom: "I never say that. Everyday. Maybe I'll just disappear."

Me: "I'm glad I make you want to disappear."

Mom: you just don't like hearing the truth. It hurts dosent it?"

Me: I'm not a bad person or a mean person. Stop saying that to me everyday. But I guess I'm a liar now too. Don't pretend you didn't say that"

Mom: "if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all"

Me: "you should probably tell that to yourself."

Mom: "everyone treats me horrible. Everyone is disrespectful."