I Have Done Stupid Things In the Name of Love
I am with this person who's always too busy to talk to me. Always at work or travelling. Am I just being stupid?
31-35, F
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You're not stupid, but you definitely need to have a good talk with him.
I knew someone, he was not my bf but someone else's, and I had heard that they broke up not because they didn't love each other but because he was married to his work. I work with him and I can attest that even his conversations with me or others on his days off or holidays are always about work. Must be hard to be with someone like that. I don't think your bf doesn't care about you, but maybe he has been alone a long time before having met you and that he has developed those ''addictions'' and''indépendance'. I haven't had a bf in many years myself, and I'm pretty sure I've developed the single independent woman syndrome too. I would probably need my guy to make me aware of my behavior, if and when I went have a bf again. So yeah, have a talk with him. Good luck.
I knew someone, he was not my bf but someone else's, and I had heard that they broke up not because they didn't love each other but because he was married to his work. I work with him and I can attest that even his conversations with me or others on his days off or holidays are always about work. Must be hard to be with someone like that. I don't think your bf doesn't care about you, but maybe he has been alone a long time before having met you and that he has developed those ''addictions'' and''indépendance'. I haven't had a bf in many years myself, and I'm pretty sure I've developed the single independent woman syndrome too. I would probably need my guy to make me aware of my behavior, if and when I went have a bf again. So yeah, have a talk with him. Good luck.
RebelHeart2020 · 31-35, F
@thinkbigaboutlife whoa, this totally made me think..thanks a lot for sharing
you're welcome! :)