A person like that, who seems to hold no interest, I lose mine, real quick. It truly is a sign.
			
			
			
			
			
		Not stupid. Just needing more of a relationship and commitment than that. If it's not working for you, perhaps it's a signal to move on. Only you can decide that.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			RebelHeart2020 · 31-35, F			
		
		@LadyGrace Thank you. That makes sense.
			
			
			
			
			
		@RebelHeart2020 It has come through experience. haha ha ha. You'll be fine.
			
			
			
			
			
		I personally see you are a really emotional and caring person. The other person just doesn't deserve it.. Men in India would love to have a partner /wife like you.. :)
			
			
			
			
			
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@SW-User I personally find many indian men attractive.
			
			
			
			
			
		
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		@thinkbigaboutlife I'm referring to the utter desperation I have observed in the large population of Indian men I've grown up with and been around.
This is by no means a statement of fact, rather one of opinion.
			
			
			
			
			
		This is by no means a statement of fact, rather one of opinion.
ah ok. np.
			
			
			
			
			
		You're not stupid, but you definitely need to have a good talk with him. 
I knew someone, he was not my bf but someone else's, and I had heard that they broke up not because they didn't love each other but because he was married to his work. I work with him and I can attest that even his conversations with me or others on his days off or holidays are always about work. Must be hard to be with someone like that. I don't think your bf doesn't care about you, but maybe he has been alone a long time before having met you and that he has developed those ''addictions'' and''indépendance'. I haven't had a bf in many years myself, and I'm pretty sure I've developed the single independent woman syndrome too. I would probably need my guy to make me aware of my behavior, if and when I went have a bf again. So yeah, have a talk with him. Good luck.
			
			
			
			
			
		I knew someone, he was not my bf but someone else's, and I had heard that they broke up not because they didn't love each other but because he was married to his work. I work with him and I can attest that even his conversations with me or others on his days off or holidays are always about work. Must be hard to be with someone like that. I don't think your bf doesn't care about you, but maybe he has been alone a long time before having met you and that he has developed those ''addictions'' and''indépendance'. I haven't had a bf in many years myself, and I'm pretty sure I've developed the single independent woman syndrome too. I would probably need my guy to make me aware of my behavior, if and when I went have a bf again. So yeah, have a talk with him. Good luck.
			RebelHeart2020 · 31-35, F			
		
		@thinkbigaboutlife whoa, this totally made me think..thanks a lot for sharing
			
			
			
			
			
		you're welcome! :)
			
			
			
			
			
		
			monster007 · 46-50, F			
		
		why did u decide to be with that person if bothers u so much  ?
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Somewhereovertherainbow · 51-55, F			
		
		I'd be suspicious...
			
			
			
			
			
		
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		Time requirements not being met.
Advise addressing issue, reevaluate in 2 weeks.
if no effort has been made, move on.
			
			
			
			
			
		Advise addressing issue, reevaluate in 2 weeks.
if no effort has been made, move on.
			RebelHeart2020 · 31-35, F			
		
		@SW-User will do, thank you 🙂
			
			
			
			
			
		
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		@RebelHeart2020 Good luck.
Love is hard to find. We're lucky when we find it.
			
			
			
			
			
		Love is hard to find. We're lucky when we find it.
			RebelHeart2020 · 31-35, F			
		
		@SW-User yes 🙂
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Cantsayno · 51-55, M			
		
		Don’t we all. Being a guy, I think with the wrong head. Lol
			
			
			
			
			
		Not stupid. He’s too busy to be in a relationship.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M			
		
		You're  miserable. . Move on!
			
			
			
			
			
		






