I Have Done Stupid Things In the Name of Love

Not stupid. Just needing more of a relationship and commitment than that. If it's not working for you, perhaps it's a signal to move on. Only you can decide that.

A person like that, who seems to hold no interest, I lose mine, real quick. It truly is a sign.

You're not stupid, but you definitely need to have a good talk with him.

I knew someone, he was not my bf but someone else's, and I had heard that they broke up not because they didn't love each other but because he was married to his work. I work with him and I can attest that even his conversations with me or others on his days off or holidays are always about work. Must be hard to be with someone like that. I don't think your bf doesn't care about you, but maybe he has been alone a long time before having met you and that he has developed those ''addictions'' and''indépendance'. I haven't had a bf in many years myself, and I'm pretty sure I've developed the single independent woman syndrome too. I would probably need my guy to make me aware of my behavior, if and when I went have a bf again. So yeah, have a talk with him. Good luck.

I personally see you are a really emotional and caring person. The other person just doesn't deserve it.. Men in India would love to have a partner /wife like you.. :)

Not stupid. He’s too busy to be in a relationship.

why did u decide to be with that person if bothers u so much ?

Don’t we all. Being a guy, I think with the wrong head. Lol

You're miserable. . Move on!

I'd be suspicious...

Time requirements not being met.
Advise addressing issue, reevaluate in 2 weeks.
if no effort has been made, move on.