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Have you ever tried to reconnect with a friend or ex friend but they don’t reply back?

Poll - Total Votes: 9

Keep reconnecting

Move on

I don’t know

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A month ago, I tried to reconnect with a really good friend of mine. I added her but she hasn’t accepted my friend request and it’s been a month. I messaged her but she hasn’t responded. Two two weeks later I sent another message but she hasn’t responded. Maybe she doesn’t go on Facebook much anymore or maybe she’s just trying to ignore me or be possible aggressive. I don’t give up that easily so I my try to find some people to try to get her to respond to me. I really miss her so much and she’s been the best friend I’ve ever had and some thing about her is very special and I’m not letting that go. Everyone deserves a second chance. We’ve been friends for about five years and then we didn’t speak to each other for a couple years. Should I keep trying to reconnect or just move on? I don’t wanna let that friendship go.

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SethGreene531 · M

Over time and distance we grew apart.
14 years on, and still he haunts my dreams. That leave me before an apartment door without a number, looking for his ghost.

In the wind, and impossible to trace, he pauses long enough to pay bills in a state.

We kept the night watch. Marking the wee hours in war stories of triumph and loss. Savoring, the quiet reverence of its dark.
Brothers alone against the night; filling its streets in echoes of laughter, running down conquest.

A quiet understanding, and unspoken connection saw him become my brother and friend. One that I'm reluctant to let go.
Like you, the desire to maintain that friendship is sadly one sided, but yet I persist. In time I may be willing to let it slip away, but not just yet.

Some people are treasures that come our way but once in a lifetime, and worth putting up a fight. You will know in due time whether yours is worth it, and when to let her go.