A month ago, I tried to reconnect with a really good friend of mine. I added her but she hasn’t accepted my friend request and it’s been a month. I messaged her but she hasn’t responded. Two two weeks later I sent another message but she hasn’t responded. Maybe she doesn’t go on Facebook much anymore or maybe she’s just trying to ignore me or be possible aggressive. I don’t give up that easily so I my try to find some people to try to get her to respond to me. I really miss her so much and she’s been the best friend I’ve ever had and some thing about her is very special and I’m not letting that go. Everyone deserves a second chance. We’ve been friends for about five years and then we didn’t speak to each other for a couple years. Should I keep trying to reconnect or just move on? I don’t wanna let that friendship go.
Over time and distance we grew apart. 14 years on, and still he haunts my dreams. That leave me before an apartment door without a number, looking for his ghost.
In the wind, and impossible to trace, he pauses long enough to pay bills in a state.
We kept the night watch. Marking the wee hours in war stories of triumph and loss. Savoring, the quiet reverence of its dark. Brothers alone against the night; filling its streets in echoes of laughter, running down conquest.
A quiet understanding, and unspoken connection saw him become my brother and friend. One that I'm reluctant to let go. Like you, the desire to maintain that friendship is sadly one sided, but yet I persist. In time I may be willing to let it slip away, but not just yet.
Some people are treasures that come our way but once in a lifetime, and worth putting up a fight. You will know in due time whether yours is worth it, and when to let her go.
@Ingwe that’s what I’m doing! She meant so much to me and she’s one of the truest friends I’ve had besides my other friends. I mean we did have a fall out a couple years ago but I moved on from that. I don’t give up that easy. I’m gonna keep going. I want her back in my life and we need to talk.
Aww this is really sweet 😊. Im sad though because she hasnt yet responded 😔 Id say, give her one more chance and, if she doesnt respond, with a heavy heart, move on 💙
My best friend did that to me. He was nowhere to be found when my wife died, and his reason was "I'm going through a divorce." He doesn't speak to me, so I said screw it. It's not my loss.
@Dewms I know but she means a lot to me and she’s very special to me and I wanna keep finding her. I’m not giving up. I know a lot of people don’t go on social media anymore but yeah. If I do bump into her one thing I’m gonna talk to her cause me to work things out.
@wackidywack I guess so but I’m not giving up. She means a lot to me and I’m not letting that go so I’m gonna keep trying. I haven’t really talked to a lot of people in a while. I know I haven’t talk to her in a while and I admit that I distant myself because I’ve been busy with life and we didn’t talk about for years but I’m trying to reconnect with her.
@Lilnonames that’s just plain stupid! How can someone be too busy to reply? I mean she just replied to you so that meant she wasn’t busy! I will just move on if I were you. My friend better not say that because if she does I’m gonna call her out.