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I Need Help Can Anyone Help Me Here

After 20 years of wasting my life I feel like I need to start growing up a little bit... and I have no idea how to go about starting my life. I have a job, I’m earning money, I’m really freaking dumb, dropped out of college, have to pay back loans, don’t have many skills... I feel like I’m going no where and I don’t know what to do. I’m tired of sitting around playing games and listening to music all the time, I’m just clueless on how to start things. I’ve always had an issue starting small and I get overwhelmed easily. I still live with my parents, I have no car, I don’t know how to do a lot of things. I feel like the most childish adult in the planet. I don’t know what to do.

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coary987 · M

First of all think about what you would really want to do and doing it would make you happy.
Then when you got that in your head ask yourself right where do I start to get there.

Throger · 26-30, M

@coary987 cooking and writing make me happy. So does music but I’ve tried playing 😂 not the best at it haha. Anything that involves being outside and/or creativity

coary987 · M

@Throger then go the chefs way .
And the music as a release after your shift.

Throger · 26-30, M

@coary987 i would still like to consider things before I rush into something like I did college. And music I’m not the best with. I’m more of a listener than a producer of music