Help

I don’t know what to do. I’m at a restaurant and there’s a really amazing girl working as a waitress today. It’s incredibly busy and I want to ask her for her number but don’t know if it’s too weird... what should I do?

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TopOfTheWorld

Seize the moment, just ask, or spend the next 40 years wondering what might have been. Fortune favours the brave and most women find confidence (not arrogance) in a man attractive.

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

Give her a piece of paper with your first name your phone number, and your email address on it. Smile and just walk away.

Repeat whenever you see a girl whom you want to get to know.

The ones who are interested will contact you, and you won't waste your time or theirs for the ones who aren't.

Throger · 26-30, M

@EnigmaticGeek if I could I would haha. I don’t have anything to write on or with

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@Throger If you're still at the restaurant, there should be a pen and a piece of paper, or even a napkin at the front counter or hostess station.

Or just ask your waitress if you can borrow a pen/pencil.

veridane79 · 26-30, F

You could slip her your number with a kind message of some sort and inviting her to coffee. Personally I would like that better than just being asked for my number. Then she could use someone else's phone haha

Throger · 26-30, M

@veridane79 yeah I get that... well, I’ll have to go out to the car and then back in so it’ll be a little more awkward especially since my parents are here with me

veridane79 · 26-30, F

@Throger 😂😂 yeah that'll be awkward

Throger · 26-30, M

Well I went to the station and wrote a small note. I wrote it fast so there was probably mistakes. Just said I hope she was having a great day and I found her very attractive and if she’d like to go get coffee sometime. Left my number and said that I hope to hear from her