Should I be offended by some ppl here ?

being offended is the new black..

Yes

Be offended by me, I'm an asshole

Yes :)!

Probably but why waste energy and emotion on them.

Qui

doesn't that just give them what they want?

No, it's never too late to rise above childish idiots. That's what I'm doing on this account.

Only if their opinion matters to you

Understand, there are some on here who want to offend you; it feeds them. You're fine just as you are - don't let anyone drag you to their level.