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SapphicHeart · F
Having had one with less honorable motives, I can't see how it ever could become a flatter.
[quote][b][big]stalker[/big][/b]
[c=#666666]/ˈstɔːkə/[/c]
[i]noun[/i]
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.[/quote]
[quote][b][big]stalker[/big][/b]
[c=#666666]/ˈstɔːkə/[/c]
[i]noun[/i]
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.[/quote]
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LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@SapphicHeart "Stalker" is used so casually now, that some people actually [b][i]do[/i][/b] see it as a form of flattery.
The only people who know the true meaning of that word are the ones who've actually had a real one.
The only people who know the true meaning of that word are the ones who've actually had a real one.
SapphicHeart · F
@LucyFuhr
Hence why I added the definition. People need to educate themselves and stop romanticizing this kind of behavior.
Hence why I added the definition. People need to educate themselves and stop romanticizing this kind of behavior.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SapphicHeart i'm jsut asking! i don't mean to be mean
summersong · F
There’s a fine line between flattering and creepy. I don’t mind extra attention but if it crossed the line to harassment I would be really uncomfortable
popmol · 22-25, M
@summersong what if its just watching you not harassing or is that harassing?
summersong · F
@popmol tbh I get very weirded out by things like that if I don’t know someone (or their intentions).
popmol · 22-25, M
@summersong makes sense! we have that feeling of being watched if we can see it too but then also the fact that you don't know why it must be unnerving
Trippy · F
I punched a stalker in the face once. Was temporarily arrested for assult till said victims true identity was found. A " habitual offender" they called him. I called him fat mouth Bob. 🤷♀️
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
It's not as fun as you might think.
BlueVeins · 22-25
In part, but I'd feel a need to be more careful about bringing pepper spray with me everywhere and I'd be more nervous on the daily.
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
I had one on a writing site that wrote poetry about me & eventually started adding paintings of me to them...I found it very disturbing! 😳
I had a girl stalker here that continously followed my every move, wrote negative stories about me, and convinced people to block me by telling lies. Eventually, I found it flattering because she was obviously obsessed and jealous in some unknown fashion, as she couldn't let me stray from her thoughts. 🤭🤣
I had a girl stalker here that continously followed my every move, wrote negative stories about me, and convinced people to block me by telling lies. Eventually, I found it flattering because she was obviously obsessed and jealous in some unknown fashion, as she couldn't let me stray from her thoughts. 🤭🤣
popmol · 22-25, M
@MoonlightLullaby well maybe he is into the rope bondage thing :p
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@popmol Yes! He wrote of that in an erotic piece, but he meant being trapped in thoughts of needing me as a metaphor.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MoonlightLullaby ooh i see! well maybe you put a spell on him without knowing!
SW-User
There's only one person that I enjoy being stalked haha other than him I wouldn't like it.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i see :) well i wouldn't stalk you but i never mind seeign more of you xD
SW-User
@popmol 😑
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i just mean around here xD i should've said that :p
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
I live in the flat beneath my stalker, there is nothing flattering in having the unwanted attention of a psychopath.
popmol · 22-25, M
@AntisocialTroll why do you not have a restraining order?
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
@popmol It's not an option for the circumstances, I'd need him to physically attack me first, harassing me with noise anything from 40 to sometimes 1000's of times a day isn't enough.
popmol · 22-25, M
@AntisocialTroll dang ;(
4meAndyou · F
Stalkers are not fun. I had one in high school and I had to quit being his tutor and I spoke to my teacher about him. I have had other stalkers who left creepy messages when I stopped dating them, or who left creepy notes on my car. The phone message stalker I could handle...just called the police and let the officer listen.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
I always wanted a nice stalker... one who was a bit naughty and suggestive but not dangerous or really creepy..
popmol · 22-25, M
@Adaydreambeliever and found one yet? i'd do it but i'm not the stalkery type :p
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
could use one.. spice thngs up..
popmol · 22-25, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout xD lovely
ahiyaa · M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout i’ll be your stalker :3
ahiyaa · M
depends whether he’s hot or not
Piper · 61-69, F
What I've experienced that was anything like what I'd consider "stalking", was definitely [i]something else[/i]. One time I was kind of flattered at first, but then it crossed into the uncomfortable zone.
PrivateHell · M
In have had one before. Wasn't flattering, especially when she somehow sent a letter to my house. I never gave her my address or full name
popmol · 22-25, M
@PrivateHell dang she did some detective work!
SW-User
I had a stalker once, cops got involved.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User and?
SW-User
@popmol no more stalker problem
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User xD
just waiting for more accounts to pop up...
I've had stalkers, they're not fun.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Nothereeeeee i'm sorry to hear that ;(
Something else for sure 🧐
popmol · 22-25, M
@TheBlackPowerRanger what?
Pfuzylogic · M
I found a few to be fun.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Pfuzylogic nice xD
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
No. Life is hard enough without a crazy following you.
popmol · 22-25, M
@FlowersNButterflies true!
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
"Sometimes you have to burn your bridges behind you to keep the crazies from following".@popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@FlowersNButterflies those poor engineers that made those bridges!
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Depends on the kink. I'm not a machine.
popmol · 22-25, M
@basilfawlty89 xD
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popmol · 22-25, M
@Darksideinthenight2 lol xD