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If you have a stalker woudl you be flattered or something else?

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could use one.. spice thngs up..
popmol · 22-25, M
[@327405,TheOneyouwerewarnedabout] xD lovely
exotically · 18-21, F
[@327405,TheOneyouwerewarnedabout] i’ll be your stalker :3
popmol · 22-25, M
[@868780,exotically] he is so lucky ;(
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Depends on the kink. I'm not a machine.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@23671,basilfawlty89] xD
BlueVeins · 18-21, M
In part, but I'd feel a need to be more careful about bringing pepper spray with me everywhere and I'd be more nervous on the daily.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@4199,BlueVeins] aah is fine! modern stalkers are more kind!
Pfuzylogic · M
I found a few to be fun.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@3118,Pfuzylogic] nice xD
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, FVIP
I always wanted a nice stalker... one who was a bit naughty and suggestive but not dangerous or really creepy..
popmol · 22-25, M
[@7167,Adaydreambeliever] and found one yet? i'd do it but i'm not the stalkery type :p
Having had one with less honorable motives, I can't see how it ever could become a flatter.

[quote][b][big]stalker[/big][/b]
[c=#666666]/ˈstɔːkə/[/c]

[i]noun[/i]
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.[/quote]
LucyFuhr · 51-55, F
[@414209,SapphicHeart] "Stalker" is used so casually now, that some people actually [b][i]do[/i][/b] see it as a form of flattery.

The only people who know the true meaning of that word are the ones who've actually had a real one.
[@8345,LucyFuhr]
Hence why I added the definition. People need to educate themselves and stop romanticizing this kind of behavior.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@414209,SapphicHeart] i'm jsut asking! i don't mean to be mean
AntisocialTroll · 51-55, F
I live in the flat beneath my stalker, there is nothing flattering in having the unwanted attention of a psychopath.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1078962,AntisocialTroll] why do you not have a restraining order?
AntisocialTroll · 51-55, F
[@16938,popmol] It's not an option for the circumstances, I'd need him to physically attack me first, harassing me with noise anything from 40 to sometimes 1000's of times a day isn't enough.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1078962,AntisocialTroll] dang ;(
Something else for sure 🧐
popmol · 22-25, M
[@596681,TheBlackPowerRanger] what?
exotically · 18-21, F
depends whether he’s hot or not
popmol · 22-25, M
[@868780,exotically] xD thats how it always works :p
summersong · F
There’s a fine line between flattering and creepy. I don’t mind extra attention but if it crossed the line to harassment I would be really uncomfortable
popmol · 22-25, M
[@334441,summersong] what if its just watching you not harassing or is that harassing?
summersong · F
[@16938,popmol] tbh I get very weirded out by things like that if I don’t know someone (or their intentions).
popmol · 22-25, M
[@334441,summersong] makes sense! we have that feeling of being watched if we can see it too but then also the fact that you don't know why it must be unnerving
KuroNeko · 36-40, F
It's not as fun as you might think.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1095867,KuroNeko] probably not :p
Piper · 61-69, F
What I've experienced that was anything like what I'd consider "stalking", was definitely [i]something else[/i]. One time I was kind of flattered at first, but then it crossed into the uncomfortable zone.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@910977,Piper] i see that sucks!
4meAndyou · F
Stalkers are not fun. I had one in high school and I had to quit being his tutor and I spoke to my teacher about him. I have had other stalkers who left creepy messages when I stopped dating them, or who left creepy notes on my car. The phone message stalker I could handle...just called the police and let the officer listen.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@387713,4meAndyou] lies! from the moment we talked i thought you were completely lovely! and i wish i could spend time with a cool lady like you!
4meAndyou · F
[@16938,popmol] Some day I will travel to Belgium and we will go camping...😉. I would enjoy sitting round a campfire with you and your family.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@387713,4meAndyou] well we are with 150 but the campfire always has some space! it would be fun!
Trippy · F
I punched a stalker in the face once. Was temporarily arrested for assult till said victims true identity was found. A " habitual offender" they called him. I called him fat mouth Bob. 🤷‍♀️
Trippy · F
[@15458,Usedtohaveanoffensiveusername] Haha... Lived on the streets. I'm 100 lbs of fierce 😎
Trippy · F
[@16938,popmol] Bob being apposed to Richard. I save the name Dick for those whom really deserve it.🤷‍♀️
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1189287,Trippy] nice :)
Gaiia · F
There's only one person that I enjoy being stalked haha other than him I wouldn't like it.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@536386,Gaiia] i see :) well i wouldn't stalk you but i never mind seeign more of you xD
Gaiia · F
[@16938,popmol] 😑
popmol · 22-25, M
[@536386,Gaiia] i just mean around here xD i should've said that :p
Saraah · 26-30, F
I've had stalkers, they're not fun.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@548406,Saraah] i'm sorry to hear that ;(
Valdaine · M
In have had one before. Wasn't flattering, especially when she somehow sent a letter to my house. I never gave her my address or full name
popmol · 22-25, M
[@573519,Valdaine] dang she did some detective work!
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
No. Life is hard enough without a crazy following you.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1125727,FlowersNButterflies] true!
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
"Sometimes you have to burn your bridges behind you to keep the crazies from following".[@16938,popmol]
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1125727,FlowersNButterflies] those poor engineers that made those bridges!
Maleficent · F
I had a stalker once, cops got involved.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@773073,Maleficent] and?
Maleficent · F
[@16938,popmol] no more stalker problem
popmol · 22-25, M
[@773073,Maleficent] xD
If it was my ex I be cool with
However, if their were anyone else I'll used this 🔪
popmol · 22-25, M
[@967051,Darksideinthenight2] lol xD
I had one on a writing site that wrote poetry about me & eventually started adding paintings of me to them...I found it very disturbing! 😳

I had a girl stalker here that continously followed my every move, wrote negative stories about me, and convinced people to block me by telling lies. Eventually, I found it flattering because she was obviously obsessed and jealous in some unknown fashion, as she couldn't let me stray from her thoughts. 🤭🤣
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1137766,DandelionWine] well maybe he is into the rope bondage thing :p
[@16938,popmol] Yes! He wrote of that in an erotic piece, but he meant being trapped in thoughts of needing me as a metaphor.
popmol · 22-25, M
[@1137766,DandelionWine] ooh i see! well maybe you put a spell on him without knowing!
just waiting for more accounts to pop up...
popmol · 22-25, M
[@980894,Jabulani] for?

 
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