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Would it be harder to tell someone you love them back? Or that you didn't love them back?

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SW-User
Telling someone you didn't love them back would suck horribly. I would rather be the recipient of that news than the giver.
YnotjennF
Definitely. I could handle someone saying they didn't love me back. But I'd probably never say it to begin with
The latter...
Yes, there are circumstances and consequences to be considered but I usually never have any problems reciprocating my love in a mutual situation. But I HATE breaking someone's heart...I think the most difficult for me is to tell someone that I've fallen out of love with that person...馃槥馃挃
YnotjennF
@Haniazed: Don't wanna let ya down 馃檮
@Ynotjenn: You never disappoint, babe! 馃槀
YnotjennF
@Haniazed: 馃槵
boobooM
#2....I hate to break a heart
Smokey46-50, M
@Ynotjenn: which one lol
YnotjennF
@Smokey: either!
Smokey46-50, M
@Ynotjenn: 馃暤
BellabongF
i grew up thinking that i should try to please people as much as i could, ease their burdens, help people feel better; any way possible. So i throw my 'i love you' to people easily even when i don't really feel that way, just because i know they'd feel better, loved, appreciated after.

*i sound like a bad person, here, i know.
YnotjennF
No...you don't. That's sweet actually because I'm sure at some level, you probably do love them in your own way.
I really wish I were more like that actually.
Brooksy41-45, M
There's no third option, huh? What about going mute or having a seizure?
YnotjennF
@Brooksy: I think I'll just stick with the screenshotting 馃
You clearly cannot be trusted
Brooksy41-45, M
I really need to start interacting with less intuitive women.
YnotjennF
@Brooksy: Probably not a bad idea ;)
SW-User
I'm too blunt to feel any difference on either. I find it much harder to stomach fake pleasantries and BS.
YnotjennF
Not a bad way to be 馃憤
SW-User
@Ynotjenn: I've seen what holding back does to people, specially passionate ones, so I concluded it is far kinder to end their doubts fast, before they have more to lose.
YnotjennF
@Volfield: agreed!
Smokey46-50, M
Ohh they both can be difficult, but when enough is enough it will just come out,馃槉
YnotjennF
Haha true!
Noble56-60, M
There are too many assumptive circumstantial questions regarding the who why when and where for me to now for sure. either way, I'm not good with misleading others!
YnotjennF
@Eccentrified: Just an observation 馃 Lol
Noble56-60, M
@Ynotjenn: At least you're paying attention to me馃槉
YnotjennF
@Eccentrified: hahaha cute 馃槣
Everlasting51-55, M
I would be very hesitant to tell somebody I loved them if I wasn't absolutely 100% positive of my feelings.
YnotjennF
Exactly. Or know that it could change at any moment lol
sarabee199526-30, F
I think that I didn't love them back. I had to do this last summer and it was extremely difficult.
SW-User
Didn't of course. lol if I love them back I'd say it in a heartbeat.
1961dave61-69, M
Tough call, I thought about it and I really don't know.
SW-User
That I didn't love them back.
YnotjennF
I think it'd be just as hard for me to tell someone I love them back 馃槙
SW-User
Everyone's got a plan on how to break in?
YnotjennF
@Auberon89: Lol! Well that's not what I meant but I suppose some apparently do! 馃檮
SW-User
I know, I just was being cheeky 馃槈
popmol22-25, M
for me equally both
HeavenBesideYou56-60, F
That I didn't. For sure.
SW-User
The latter
JaggedLittlePill46-50, F
Harder to tell them if I did not.
Just4fun51-55, M
That you didn't -ouch
tenente100+, M
neither bothers me

 
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