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Am I too nice?

This lady and I were both wearing the same dress and she implied that she looked better in it, I just agreed with her rather than saying a snide remark back to her.
curiosi · 61-69, F
We can never fully understand another. Maybe that's not what she meant or maybe she did and she is terribly insecure. When we are nice we guard our own soul.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@curiosi I just agreed, because in my opinion, she did look better in the dress.
curiosi · 61-69, F
@WendyLopez43 I hope you find your confidence. We are all different and unique and while there are exceptions. We are all beautiful in our own way.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@curiosi I think the dress was just more her style than mine.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
too nice, no.

if someone's comments hurt you and really affect your life (someone whose opinion you care about and matters to you then speak up) all others it doesn't matter. just as long as you know the truth.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@lovingdead I really did think she looked better in the dress actually.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
@WendyLopez43 well rudeness is unatractive...so you get plus points and she gets one minused
Wandering1 · 26-30, F
Only if you believed her. In that case, you’d be too nice.

If you know you look better than her, then it’s polite to not argue. It’s up to you whether or not to let her dream 😂

Then again, snide remarks don’t really help anyways. You just didn’t have to agree.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Wandering1 I'm too nice, I thought she looked better in the dress.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
No you're not too nice, you took the high road to HER snide remark to you. Very admirable😉👍️
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@indyjoe I really did think she looked better too, I couldn't lie.
SW-User
No, sounds like you just avoided unnecessary drama.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@SW-User that, and I actually did agree with her.
Keaten · 31-35, M
You weren't being too nice. You were just being polite. For we know, she may have been having a rough day and just needed to feel good about herself. I don't why that had to come at the expense of your character but it's better to not even deal with the unnecessary drama it may have caused if you argued with her.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Keaten I was being honest too, I really agreed with her.
Keaten · 31-35, M
@WendyLopez43 But unlike her, you didn't put anyone down just to feel better about yourself and that shows immense beauty in you.☺️
Nobody28 · M
I like nice girls keep being you
iamnikki · 31-35, F
no, but she's rude
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@iamnikki she was rude, but I had to be honest, she looked better in it.
You did the right thing
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
Hmm. I'm sure you were definitely better, but would be nice to see. You know for our professional opinion
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@BearDownChicago that's such a guy thing to say *rolls eyes
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
@WendyLopez43 lol. You know.we are visual creatures
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
No, I don't think you were necessarily too nice. I think you were smart not to argue. But she was mean.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@TeresaRudolph71 Plus in my personal opinion, she did look better, I actually did agree with her there.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@WendyLopez43 Well, that shows that you're honest and you have humility, something she is clearly lacking.
grayhalo · 41-45, M
Sometimes it's not worth the trouble. For all you know she thought you looked good and felt threatened for whatever reason.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@grayhalo Also, I was being honest, I personally thought she looked better in it than me. The style suited her more.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
You did the right thing by being Polite
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@JohnOinger plus, I really did agree with her.
lou502008 · 61-69, M
you did the right thing

 
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