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Is it important for you to be liked?

Depending on who the people are, yes it is. I would hope that people I care about and genuinely enjoy like me, or even my coworkers I would hate to be in a work environment where people don’t like me but situations like that happen, I just think it makes it a bit more difficult for work to be enjoyable. As far as strangers, someone who doesn’t have any association with me or even friends/relatives in a way, or someone I personally don’t like then no I don’t care. It really all depends on the situation and who the person is to me, I’m not going to say I flat out don’t care if people like me or not because I do to some extent and I honestly think everyone does whether they want to admit it or not.
SW-User
Only for the people that are important for me. That, always taking in consideration that if they start disliking me it's o.k. because more important than that it's being myself
xRedx · M
@SW-User Yeah, that makes sense. Why care about what random people think or say about you...
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
meh, i only want to be liked by those who like me.

the rest are assholes and i don't need that in my life.
SW-User
This sums it up:
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@SW-User love this show
xRedx · M
@SW-User 😂😂😂
I had this in mind
@SW-User meee
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
Only by those who count
xRedx · M
@Thingschange4444 that's fair enough
SW-User
Not really. I certainly don't change my behavior in order to be liked, that is.
SW-User
I certainly dont want to be hated🤐
xRedx · M
@SW-User I think a vast majority don't want that lol
Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
Not really.

I'd rather be hated for trying to be myself and good, than being fake and bad.

I'm hated by many IRL. So, I can handle ANYTHING here.

#lonewolf
#toughlife
SW-User
No, but it matters to me to not be despised.
xRedx · M
@SW-User that's what I think as well
SW-User
@xRedx Pretty insane what people do when they decide they hate someone, right? 😕
xRedx · M
@SW-User Yes, that's mental. The psychology behind that is something I don't want to get into.
Throger · 26-30, M
I used to but it comes to a point where you have to realize you can’t please everyone
xRedx · M
@Throger true, you can't and won't please everyone
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
No. As long as I like myself, that's what truly matters most to me.
xRedx · M
@JerseyGal that's a good mentality. Like yourself foremost
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
@xRedx Thank you! ☺
SW-User
I would perfer it, but you cannot make everyone like you.
xRedx · M
@SW-User no, you really can't. It's impossible
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xRedx · M
@FelixLegion I can relate to a certain degree
Carver · 31-35, F
By those I care about, yes. 😓
xRedx · M
@Carver that's perfectly normal and makes sense
xRedx · M
@NunIover same here
@xRedx 👍🏾
AprilBaby042 · 36-40, F
Its nice to be liked but it shouldn't be a primary source of motivation in life.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Of course. I’d hope on a regular basis my loved ones like me. Strangers it’s always a positive. And if most don’t like you then you know you are either doing something wrong or doing something very new.

 
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