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Do you date people significantly less attractive than you so you wont have to worry about them cheating on you?

Have you ever thought about it?
When I like someone enough to spend time with them, appearance is irrelevant. No one I have ever spent time with has cheated upon me except the ex. And he is the past. People tend to want me only and deeply.
If a guy is going to cheat, really doesn't matter what he looks like.
SW-User
I date the person I have a connection with.
would just be dating for the wrong reasons. canne date from a place of insecurity or you'll just end up with another insecure person thus leading to an insecure relationship.
Classified · M
'I trust you because you are ugly, honey'
I wonder how she'd take that. :?
Classified · M
@PoetryNEmotion I kinda expected you'd mean that, but it was written unclear to me. It is possible more woman know. I've seen both men and women know and both men and women not know.

I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't 'geesh' me.
@Classified I see. I am geeshing me not you. I usually am clear. LOL.
Classified · M
@PoetryNEmotion Oh, ok. I didn't realise that either, sorry. 😅
But no doubt there is an over the top focus on appearance in this world. It does not only influence the beholders choices, but makes people uncertain about their own appearance. It's an ugly thing.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
That doesn't make much sense... people who want to cheat will... No matter what you look like.
SW-User
@dumpstermeow I feel the theory is that someone who is 'less attractive' than someone else will be happy to be with someone who is more attractive and consider themselves so fortunate as to not even fathom cheating.

Not saying the logic is [i]sound[/i], just... What I feel this is implying.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@SW-User anyone who feels like that is most likely an idiot. 🤷
@SW-User I think I have heard something about this. It is said that a very attractive person often stays with a person of much less looks. People comment on this behaviour. One receives so much attention and the other receives none. I don't know why this happens.
i have only had one woman cheat on me, and that was due to the corruption of her character and a host of demons she was facing. nothing to do with attraction.

i find people attractive physically if i find them attractive on the inside. if they have nothing inside but are physically attractive, i lose interest immediately.
RemovedUsername83534 · 46-50, F
Just cause you’re attractive doesn’t make you more likely to cheat though ?! Cheats come in all shapes and sizes !
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@IstillmissEP You say such a thing to her? I am shocked. Rarely are people ugly. This is a terrible thing to SAY. There are plain people. *shakes my head*
SW-User
I just date hoping that I don't get cheated on, but if they do we're done so whatever.
I wouldn't even consider myself that attractive anyways so no I guess not.
bamaboylick · 61-69, M
I’ve thought about it in the past. Never admitted it until just now
SW-User
If that were possible I'd do it.
DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
@DanielChristensen Her question? She is young.
SW-User
No, and no.
Xuan12 · 31-35, M
Doesn't work.
No. I’d say we are equally attractive. 🤓
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Tried it, didn't work.
SW-User
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit who would cheat on you?? Wow idiots.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@SW-User it is okay it all led me to the right one, so in a way I'm thankful
SW-User
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit that's a good thing then :)

 
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