Do you date people significantly less attractive than you so you wont have to worry about them cheating on you?

@Classified There are no ugly people. Ugly is in deeds. I have known people whose appearances are so repulsive that you are warned before you see them so you don't appear shocked. And those people are so beautiful inside. I find it horrendous that people base so much upon appearance in the world.

@PoetryNEmotion It's hard to avoid. When I look at two different people, I can usually tell who I think looks better.

@Classified It is hard to think with love, isn't it? What does looking better do for a person? I understand one must be attracted, but one can miss such wonderful people when you don't give someone a chance. You cannot see a person's heart without conversation.

@PoetryNEmotion Do many people refuse to talk to someone they find unattractive then?

@Classified Depends upon the person. Do you?

@PoetryNEmotion No, why would I?

@Classified Many men care only for appearances. I cannot speak of you. I don't know you. I am just commenting. As real men become older, they realize something more substantial like brains and hearts matter. Some women have it all-beauty, brains, and hearts. Some men never learn. Some women never learn either.

@PoetryNEmotion I remember confessing to a girl some years ago. Right before I did that it struck me she looked pretty. Somehow I never noticed before.

@Classified I tend to think many women already know about appearances of men. They seem to value those with hearts and minds more.

@PoetryNEmotion 'Know about appearances of men'? What do you mean?

@Classified Am I not clear? Geesh. Sorry. I mean more women than men know that it isn't all about appearances. Women can more easily see under the skin of men. They value good hearts and intelligence. Men tend to be more visual.

@PoetryNEmotion I kinda expected you'd mean that, but it was written unclear to me. It is possible more woman know. I've seen both men and women know and both men and women not know.

I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't 'geesh' me.

@Classified I see. I am geeshing me not you. I usually am clear. LOL.

@PoetryNEmotion Oh, ok. I didn't realise that either, sorry. 😅
But no doubt there is an over the top focus on appearance in this world. It does not only influence the beholders choices, but makes people uncertain about their own appearance. It's an ugly thing.