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I Dont Think My Boyfriend Knows How Much He Hurts Me Sometimes

I try to explain how I feel and it’s once again always about him... yet he thinks it’s always about me. We’ll never get along, and maybe he’s right, maybe I am gay.
Pherick · 41-45, M
Holy shit, that is your boyfriend? That is a seriously high level of immaturity. Wow.
Pherick · 41-45, M
[@420361,StonerGirl69] That is beyond words pathetic. Please, do you yourself a real favor, drop him like a hot potato. Anyone who would treat you with such disrespect when you obviously are upset is not worth your time.

To be honest, the reason a 40-year-old man is dating a 20 year old woman is because he can't hack it with women his real age. Those comments you posted are proof of that.
DreamCoCreators · 31-35, M
[@420361,StonerGirl69] In that case 100% get rid. He deserves a lesson - and you would deliver one hell of a roundhouse kick by throwing him out.
MrGoodbar · 46-50, M
[@420361,StonerGirl69] What he's 20 years older and acting like that? He's giving us older guys a bad name. No you should expect him to treat you right and good and be careful with you. you have opened up to him and that's a gift he needs to keep safe not treat like a weapon against you.

Sorry that's happening
LG1976 · 41-45, F
Cut your losses sweetie... I speak from experience. It’s not worth it.
Today I learnt Americans spell it "dike" and not the correct "dyke" lol

Also Paul is a twat
StonerGirl69 · 22-25, F
[@448067,Qwerty14] hahahah he just doesn’t know how to spell😂
[@420361,StonerGirl69] I know people have already said this but it's clear Paul doesn't care about your feelings and doesn't respect you as a person. The age gap also highlights the man may be too immature to handle a real relationship. I'd ditch him if I were you because you need someone who takes the time to communicate and make you feel secure
DreamCoCreators · 31-35, M
There may be something in what you say there. We have been through troubles like that, me and my other half. I had to shut the hell up for a bit. Ask questions, and allow whatever the hell came out to just fall out. Not interrupt. Not reply any more than to ask for a little clarification, or genuinely try to understand where they were coming from. I learnt a lot, so did they. They didn't realise they felt like that, and that thing was bothering them so much. Well, we progressed that way anyway. And they ended up in a space (eventually) where they could do the same for me and allow me that safe forum where it was ok to be me, and they genuinely wanted to understand where I was coming from even if it hurt. Good luck, but honestly looking at that message alone out of context I'd say you deserve better whether you believe it or not, and with your looks you would not find it difficult to find better either - if only you would lose the fear and simply ask for it...
496sbc · 36-40, M
What the hell are u with a guy like that for.
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
Wow, that is a seriously flawed response by him especially when you're trying to open up to him. You should consider bouncing him to the next zip code...
Your still with that loser?
Though you were going to dump his ass
PerthSurfer · 46-50, M
You really need to ditch that guy, from everything you've said on this and other posts, he has so many issues that aren't healthy or good for you. You deserve way better.
Ynotisay · M
I can't imagine a guy not wanting to be with a woman who professes her insecurity and hate and then turns around and shares it with a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Lthrlvr · 46-50, M
Hope I'm not being out of line but it sounds to me like he's a child in the relationship.
Facesofone · 46-50, M
You deserve much better,someone who will buid you up not tear you down.
SW User
Uh.... he sure doesn't talk you nicely at all.... sorry to say but what a jerk
SW User
Please please please remember these moments and leave him.
beefandbroccoli · 26-30, M
Looks like he’s got a solid grip on you. Keep staying with him 👍
Your boyfriend is a self centered DICK
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Definitely time to move on me thinks
MrBrownstone · 41-45, M
Hey! You sleep good?

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