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What about erotic fetishism?

Would you consider fetishism as bad? Some dictionaries have it as a form of sexual behaviour in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, activity, part of the body, etc. Somehow I don't believe that anything within reason is abnormal. What about all those desires that stay dormit and don't appear in someone's behaviour? No, personally, I don't consider a foundness of hosiery as such as being bad. How about you?
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
So long as no one gets hurt (more than they want to) and everyone is consenting then no.
val70 · 51-55
You think that's normal? It sounds almost something out a cia manual.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@val70 I've experienced it a lot. You get it with narcissists. They will say what you want to hear but theres nothing behind it.
val70 · 51-55
Right, at the time I wasn't thinking. She abused me a lot at the time because I told her everything.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
Bad? No I wouldn't consider it bad. I might call it exceptionally boring, or uninspiring, but it's not bad. People who think fetishism is like some kind of moral corruption are so tiresome. They're stuck decades in the past.
val70 · 51-55
That offers an orginal prospective alright. I think that wearing hosiery isn't bad. Not till you want the other to suck your toes or something ;)
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@val70 I'll admit, despite being nigh impervious to eroticism, I'm tempted to engage in it just because it pisses off all the stuck up snobs who detract it 😂
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
I love velvety kind of clothing and some leather. It looks beautiful and powerful on a lady especially the long velvet vampire like robes, the long boots, and long velvet dresses or pants.

I kind of have a fetish for royalty. The crowns, the thrones, the scepters, are all appealing to my mind and eyes.

Nothing wrong with this type pf fetish for consenting adults, who can trust each other and enjoy it.
val70 · 51-55
@therighttothink50 I just love my velvet gloves ;-)
Slade · 56-60, M
@val70 softer and better stimulation during hand jobs😉
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
No the psychology of it is quite interesting.


https://similarworlds.com/2449251-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Behavior/3655597-Ever-wonder-what-causes-fetishes-Not-just-likes-or
val70 · 51-55
@Subsumedpat Thanks for the link. And I do agree that the psychology is very meaty there.
There's this fine line between a fondness for hosiery and forcefully taking it for your own.
@val70 To each their own. Personally, I would not be comfortable in a situation where I needed a safeword.
val70 · 51-55
Haven't been there either. Some people can't believe that it needs a lot of talk beforehand. Even the simple hosiery stuff.
@val70 I can't say that I've felt like anything that required the simple act of wearing something to make safewords necessary.

I do communicate well before hand and establish what he has planned, though.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
And there is this one , people with a true fetish did not pick it out or ask for it.



https://similarworlds.com/6254527-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Sexuality/3696786-Psychology-of-fetish-more-specifically-the
As long as you both can handle it, consent and have safewords where appropriate, I don't see a problem.
ArtieKat · M
The parameters of "normality" are constantly evolving. What authority can define what's "bad"?
I find some womens hands are very pretty but not to the degree is sexually aroused me
walabby · 61-69, M
Anything between consenting adults is fine with me...
Well you know how I feel 😏. 🙌
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
I don't think it's bad either. I have a major foot fetish myself.

 
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