How can I get over my anger towards my sister in law.? I can't help to think that she is causing a damage to my marriage. [Spirituality & Religion]

@revenant she should just kick her ass!

@TheReaverCleaver agree with you

It's the right thing to do, not to interfere. But, she can't help it. And it makes me so angry because I am trying to be nice to her.@revenant

This is supposed to be a second chance for us after we broke up 3 years ago.But everytime this woman comes into the picture it messes everything up.She puts things inher brother's head. My husband believes almost everything she says.@mrbuddhawannabe

@Bittersweet84 I can't see why you would stay with him. Life is too short to deal with such aggravation.

I know, it needs a lot of thinking. Seriously. @mrbuddhawannabe

@SW-User ikr! I know what I'm saying... sister-in-law?
Nah! Talking wont help!
kick her ass! Lol

@Bittersweet84 No dont break her neck. That might be a lil too much. Just kick her ass!

@TheReaverCleaver @Bittersweet84 I can see why it's all such a mess...the two of you are incredibly immature and violent...even if just in your thoughts. You create your own drama

@Fernie or your to old to realize that sometimes in life... that's the only way to save a marriage

Unfortunately, for hubby, his sister never did anything wrong. When we broke up 3 years ago, it was because of her sister's brainwashing. I have to leave the UK to get away from them. But her poison still lingers around hubby's mind. When she was here for a vacation , it came to a point that hubby told me that he will be taking my daughter away from me. We were constantly fighting when she was here. Husband and her were always out for a meal or they go for a night out together for bar hopping etc. While I stay at home with my daughter.@JimminyChristmas

@Bittersweet84 Sorry to hear that. Wish people would realize that when you have a marriage, your previous family has to take second place to your spouse and children. People are not meant to be disposable.

I know. We should be the first priority. Thank you Jimmy. I just wish this anger will be gone soon as I hate the feeling. @JimminyChristmas

@TheReaverCleaver my idea is more creative and original tho...

@LesserUgly yea but a good ass kicking is always effective

@TheReaverCleaver not as fun

@SW-User .. ... ....and-
kick her ass!

@plungesponge that wont change a thing!she needs to
kick her ass!

I left the UK with my family to be away from them especially to be away from this woman. But her poison still lingers everywhere. And I keep on keeping this anger to myself, and I am starting to hate myself because of feeling like this.@plungesponge

Thank you. I am thankful she’s not here in our home anymore. I am getting over the anger bit by bit. 🙂@aaaabbbb

@Bittersweet84 you welcome and i am glad she is gone. Good luck.

I might try that. Thank you.
:-)@ABCDEF7

He is fully aware about this. But still saying that his sister has done nothing wrong. Even if there was a legitimate history about the things she did in the past to cause friction in our marriage. And even now, it's causing so much contention between us. The problem is, husband seems to think that his sister knows everything. And he also believes that his sister is always right. He can't stop talking about her. It's driving me insane tbh.So this is why, this woman is like a lingering poison.@approachingmyexpirationdate

@Bittersweet84 this guy sounds like a real keeper

I am trying to analyze that it's because she's very unhappy with her life and she can't fix herself after her divorce and she is trying to fix somebody else's life. I think she feels the need to do this because of her profession as a Psychologist. But ironically, she can't fix her own self.@GlassDog

@Bittersweet84 I spent a lot of time working with student psychologists. It's amazing how many of them study the subject because they imagine it will explain their own lives or make it easier. Without going into lots of detail, it really doesn't work that way, and they find they can only learn how to "help" others. So I think you may be onto something there. She perhaps doesn't even realise the harm your perceive or your anger at it.

Yes, I know. And she wants to be in control with things. Instead of asking me about some informations (as she is not familiar with the Philippines) she would rather ask Siri or google about it. @GlassDog

@Fernie and he is allowing her to... shes still butting in through him... she needs to kick her ass!

@Bittersweet84 kick her ass once! She will never butt in again and your husband will get over it!

7 years ago I was about to throw acid to her face because her meddling in my family.@TheReaverCleaver

@Bittersweet84 no no no... that's too much. . Way to much!