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How can I get over my anger towards my sister in law.? I can't help to think that she is causing a damage to my marriage. [Spirituality & Religion]

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GlassDog · 46-50, M
I think the most useful thing would be to try to work out why she is doing what she is doing.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
I am trying to analyze that it's because she's very unhappy with her life and she can't fix herself after her divorce and she is trying to fix somebody else's life. I think she feels the need to do this because of her profession as a Psychologist. But ironically, she can't fix her own self.@GlassDog
GlassDog · 46-50, M
@Bittersweet84 I spent a lot of time working with student psychologists. It's amazing how many of them study the subject because they imagine it will explain their own lives or make it easier. Without going into lots of detail, it really doesn't work that way, and they find they can only learn how to "help" others. So I think you may be onto something there. She perhaps doesn't even realise the harm your perceive or your anger at it.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
Yes, I know. And she wants to be in control with things. Instead of asking me about some informations (as she is not familiar with the Philippines) she would rather ask Siri or google about it. @GlassDog