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I Do Not Know What To Do

Can't afford to have a baby. Can't afford to abort it because everytime I start setting aside money something pops up and takes all of it away. Time is ticking as I'm approx 2 months maybe more maybe a bit less along. People have mentioned herbal but I don't know if I trust that or it might take too long. I don't know anymore and I'm getting depressed

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Are you using birth control? How about adopting out this baby? There are many couples who would gladly pay for your medical expenses and give your baby a great home. Likely even a bit extra money too for your being a good surrogate. Consider this please.

seashells · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion no birth control and my thing is I don't want the kid coming back to me hating me for giving them away

drymer · 56-60, M

@seashells Don't get ahead of yourself, don't just assume the kid will "come back to me hating me for giving them away". I've heard many stories of people who were adopted and as adults would do everything to meet their mother, never harboring an ounce of resentment. They KNOW if you gave them for adoption is for their own good!

drymer · 56-60, M

@seashells Just read this story, if only to pass the time:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2018/05/08/he-searched-for-his-japanese-birth-mother-he-found-her-and-the-restaurant-she-had-named-after-him/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.884f68b383ff

PoetryNEmotion · F

@seashells A child who is adopted into a loving family rarely feels abandoned. They may look you up if you allow it. I don't know what the laws are in your state. How about a closed adoption then? Or open? You have so many options. Don't abort. Consider giving this baby a home and love.