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I Do Not Know What To Do

Can't afford to have a baby. Can't afford to abort it because everytime I start setting aside money something pops up and takes all of it away. Time is ticking as I'm approx 2 months maybe more maybe a bit less along. People have mentioned herbal but I don't know if I trust that or it might take too long. I don't know anymore and I'm getting depressed
Are you using birth control? How about adopting out this baby? There are many couples who would gladly pay for your medical expenses and give your baby a great home. Likely even a bit extra money too for your being a good surrogate. Consider this please.
drymer · 56-60, M
@seashells Don't get ahead of yourself, don't just assume the kid will "come back to me hating me for giving them away". I've heard many stories of people who were adopted and as adults would do everything to meet their mother, never harboring an ounce of resentment. They KNOW if you gave them for adoption is for their own good!
drymer · 56-60, M
@seashells Just read this story, if only to pass the time:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2018/05/08/he-searched-for-his-japanese-birth-mother-he-found-her-and-the-restaurant-she-had-named-after-him/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.884f68b383ff
@seashells A child who is adopted into a loving family rarely feels abandoned. They may look you up if you allow it. I don't know what the laws are in your state. How about a closed adoption then? Or open? You have so many options. Don't abort. Consider giving this baby a home and love.
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
At this point, adoption maybe your best option. It's best to go to a doctor about this and not look for answers online you are bound to get confused and end up doing the wrong thing to your body. i am sure that a doctor can be of help. It may not be affordable, but I assure you that they won't just turn you down in this type of situation.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
And this is why it should be covered. Don’t try to do it yourself you may cause a defect but not end the pregnancy.
seashells · 31-35, F
@Flenflyys yeah I'm not dumb enough to do the wire hanger method
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
I meant with pharmaceutical or herbal remedies. There is an abortion pill but I don’t know the cost or how late you can take it. Good luck I hope you can find a way.
Catzgano · 31-35, F
I know 4 kids that were all adopted by same parents and none are angry at their birth mom. More like wondering I guess
SW-User
Approach different NGOs, you might find some help
MightySizeQueen · 36-40, F
If you are in USA, there is Plan Parenthood that can help you. You can apply for assist and get help.


It is up to you if you're willing to go out to get help.
Sepia · 36-40, F
Don't drink anything..might harm your body. Look for people who are capable to adapt your baby.
Did u talk to the clinic
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Planned parenthood does more than abortions
seashells · 31-35, F
They might be able to help u set up a game plan

What ever ur decision it might do u good to talk to them asap

I'm pretty talking to them is free but idk
Fernie · F
give the baby up for adoption. If you can't get a safe abortion
madasalizard · 36-40, M
Adoption is the way to go in this case then.
There are payment plans they can set up for you.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Give up for adoption.
Mktonght · 61-69, M
Put it up for adoption

 
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