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I asked him to try things out again

For the sake of sharing finances ,chores ,etc and it being beneficial to both of us. He said people who do it for those reasons never work out. I said I didnt want us to be romantically involved, just work with each other as a union and have separate personal lives . He said he didnt think that would work for him either. I said ok and then he asked me to go over his place to talk about it more ,I said I couldnt today because I was meeting a friend so he asked me to come by tomorrow before work. I said that I would think about it and then a few hours later he texted me asking me to send him something showing him what he is missing. I ignored it
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I feel for you. I’ve been in that situation for over 20 years....and I’m at the end of it. I only stayed in because of our children, both are now adults. If I had to do it over, I would have left him/had him leave to stay away (it was always about finances not love).
It might be tough but move on from him. You deserve better.
[@686992,Annii] I'm sorry about that . I dont have feelings for him not in that way anyway I just miss having someone take care of me when I'm feeling unwell or tired. Not that he did that to be fair. I'm not sure I think I am just burned out from trying to keep up with everything and everyone but myself
[@1116811,ianon] I hear that. It’s always nice to have someone to take care of you.
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
{@ianon] i cannot see why your arrangement would not work really . you would be flat mates sharing the bill house work anddoing your own thing . no string apart from what i have mentioned . no i think there is more to it . has he another agenda or am i being suspicious minded

 
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