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I Don't Have Any Friends

because I don’t talk to anyone. I don’t exhibit an approachable body language. I don’t talk unless someone asks me a question or I have something important to say. I also like to keep my life private. I’m bored of talking about my life while someone else can view my life as interesting. I also don’t invite anyone to eat or do an activity together. If I’m under pressure to talk about myself at a personal level, I freeze up and I can’t think of anything to say. When I feel comfortable, words come out naturally, I feel relaxed or energetic, I’m open and honest, I don’t filter what I say or do, the conversations are enjoyable, silences are comfortable, and I pay attention to the person I’m speaking with.

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joahola98wj · 31-35, F

@keikokusanagi I understand what you mean when you said, "I can just about see all possible outcomes what would happen if I say one thing over another or not say anything at all." I do that too. It's fun for me to do--anything about strategy, choices, and what different paths can lead to. I have a problem with being vulnerable, allowing other people to see or know my emotions. I like keeping my feelings a mystery. If people don't know how I feel, they can't know if their behavior has an affect on me. I'm aware and I believe that expressing our emotions isn't a weakness, but I don't like being pitied if I cry or look sad, hopeless, or depressed. I don't see you rambling. What you've said is related to the current topic we're discussing. We're all adding our own perspective on this topic.