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I Don't Have Any Friends

because I don’t talk to anyone. I don’t exhibit an approachable body language. I don’t talk unless someone asks me a question or I have something important to say. I also like to keep my life private. I’m bored of talking about my life while someone else can view my life as interesting. I also don’t invite anyone to eat or do an activity together. If I’m under pressure to talk about myself at a personal level, I freeze up and I can’t think of anything to say. When I feel comfortable, words come out naturally, I feel relaxed or energetic, I’m open and honest, I don’t filter what I say or do, the conversations are enjoyable, silences are comfortable, and I pay attention to the person I’m speaking with.

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Mahjack · 31-35, M

Isn't it the same thing as being shy? I'm kinda shy when it comes to some stuff. I like to socialize but I can't just go ahead and ask someone face to face to be my friend for no reason or because "I like you". I really wonder how can people say jokes or prank others but they usually get positive reactions. I don't mind asking strangers if I want to know something or talk to them about something 'specific', but I can't just go ahead and talk to them about anything as if I know them. My friend didn't like getting into his classes when he's late like 10 mins and everyone's there. He just goes back home. He hates being the one attracting people's attention for something bad even if he didn't do it but happened to someone just close to him and he's the only one there who can't do anything about it. Though, he's has been doing good in the recent years cause according to him, he kept telling himself "There are 8 billion people in this world, I'm normal just like everyone else. I shouldn't care about some 5 people talking negatively. Not like I did something to be on the News". He really did fight hard for it, he barely cares nowadays. He still likes privacy more fearing people will comment on what he did or what he said, more like misjudgment. However, I know he was shy, just shy.

Aren't you just extremely shy? Sorry for the long post, I hope I made some sense >.>