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Question for those of you who like getting gifts and especially those that like to give them

How do I choose one?

So, a friend (an ex-friend?) of mine is really good with gifts, takes a lot of work, time and brainstorming into it. I on the other hand, don't see them as something that "sparks joy". So I suck at choosing and giving them. Whether we're friends or not and what is going to happen is still uncertain but she's been a dear friend of mine for years and considering how much time and effort she took with each gift these past few years, I feel like I owe her at least one that I thought through.

Any ideas? What can I focus on?
Many thanks!
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What does she like?? Start there.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@DarlingSelah I tried that. From the most obvious ones (things we had in common) to getting her something I know she'd use and even asking her what she wanted.
On the other hand, she snuck a bigger plushie and hid it for a week right in front of my nose, got some unique chocolate...