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If you're still a virgin - why?

Poll - Total Votes: 69

saving myself for marriage

parents want me to wait

religious reasons

havent met the right person yet

something else

im still too young

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I'm interested in your reasons and thoughts

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SW-User Best Comment

Because Jesus is always watching.

chrisCA · M

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Saving yourself for marriage was an idea from when marriages occurred at age 16.. very outdated idea.

jennypenny · 70-79, F

Why? Because an idea is old he doesn't make it wrong@Muthafukajones

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@jennypenny the idea is culturally and socially out of date.

It is unrealistic to expect a woman to wait into her twenties or thirties to begin her sexual life.

Reliable birth control and disease prevention are also readily available.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Muthafukajones The difference is, now it’s a [b]personal[/b] choice, which a person is still free to make.
Back then, it wasn’t.

anderst · 46-50, M

Not yet found the right woman and my mom does not allowed it

nevergiveup · M

I am an anal virgin still waiting for the right woman

Smiles

You need a 'I'm to young' option Kimmy

KimberleyAnne · F

@Smiles - added!

oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M

i was a virgin on my wedding night because there where no ladies that would sleep with me ,,, they said mainly cause i was in the military and it was in the 70's ,,,

UniGirl19 · 22-25, F

Don't see why I should waste something precious.

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jennypenny · 70-79, F

An answer worthy of an airhead! @ninjavu

ninjavu · 51-55, M

@jennypenny *lol* Perhaps you missed the part of this discussion about calling people names not being an intelligent defence of an argument. 🙄

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@UniGirl19 don't let their words fool you, your virginity is in fact precious.

When a woman is a virgin, I respect her at least five times more, and find myself fifty times more attracted to her (it would be amazing to marry a virgin girl)

Not only is it honorable, it's beautiful, and even sexy

Even if I had a willing virgin in my arms I wouldn't want to spoil her, I would want to marry her

SW-User

Because no one can be trusted with that kind of vulnerability.

PhoenixPhail · M

@SW-User But how can you be in love with someone [b][i]without[/i][/b] trusting them with your vulnerability?

EmeraldOdinelle · 22-25, F

Easily @PhoenixPhail

Deadcutie · 18-21, F

I’m not, but since my parents and friends think so, I am...

SW-User

I think i deflowered myself many years ago

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

I learned after my ex that people can make you believe that they are the person you have been waiting for. Then, over time, that fades and the real and ugly version of themselves takes its place.

vividsid94 · 26-30, M

There are always multiple factors. As a guy who doesn't overly want sex, some of it comes down to choice. Obviously I would want to partake in sex with the right person. The problem is that for some people more than others, finding the right person can be extremely challenging and something that demands effort and tests character. For those who think like that, it's really easy to give up, which would keep them a virgin. There is also some element of randomness on when that person 'pops up', if they do.

redredred · M

There is no more over-hyped, unimportant human characteristic than virginity. Its like growing a beard, it's there because you did nothing.

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redredred · M

@jennypenny Yep, its a gift.

jennypenny · 70-79, F

Oh arrogance? Yes I see! @redredred

redredred · M

@jennypenny Finally, I thought you’d never get it.

PhoenixPhail · M

I don't think there ARE any virgins. The government screws everyone.

ProdigalSummer · F

I don't want to disappoint my children. 😇

LyricalOne · F

I’m saving myself.

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@LyricalOne Swoon!

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

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SW-User

@Harriet03 👏🏻

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@SW-User ✌

Reflection2 · 41-45, M

@Harriet03 Spot on. As we all now know a women will always be a women. Wake up you all bloody virgin guys 😁Lol

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jennypenny · 70-79, F

I was a virgin till my wedding night. I had a mother who taught me not to sell myself cheaply!

KimberleyAnne · F

@jennypenny thats what I want to do

SW-User

I saved myself and I'm glad I did.

Reflection2 · 41-45, M

Fucking yes. Not having time and an appreciate, volunteer pussy to bang.

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@Reflection2 Volunteer pussy 😂😂😂😂

Reflection2 · 41-45, M

@InvictusIndigo Dont have time, neither guts to make a lady spread her legs, even if she has done for many.

PhoenixPhail · M

I'm not a virgin, physically, but I think I am, spiritually.

LittleBlueAngelBoy · M

I have a sexual prophecy to fulfill and haven't met my soulmate yet.

TopCat

Why is it almost shameful to be a virgin after 21?

Johnindi · 26-30, M

I've lost my virginity ten times :)

SW-User

Don't want to embarrass my kids

BrattyMel · 31-35, F

Because I want to be 🤷🏼‍♀️

SW-User

[c=#BF0000]A combination of not having met a [i] decent[/i] person and living with over protective controlling parents[/c]

UniGirl19 · 22-25, F

Or maybe you've met a wonderful guy who you want to share your life with in the future and you're not going to rake notice of people like you. @SW-User

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jennypenny · 70-79, F

A typical male answer. @monimathu

deadgerbil · 22-25

Not interested in losing it, not for a couple of years as I'm not going to have sex with whoever.

english · 56-60, M

It was given the idiots would answer . morons 😆

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@english You right here with us, my guy. 😜

midnightsun · 26-30, M

I'm viegin if you consider last 20 days

does that count

SW-User

Haven’t been a virgin for 10 years. Tell me how it was.

ASouthernGentleman · 31-35, M

Waiting for the right person

SW-User

iinterested to see these responses

Linda58

I love virgin girls.

bijouxbroussard · F

I’m not, but I’m glad I waited until it was with someone who truly cared about me. I’ve never had a casual attitude about sex, so I probably would’ve been devastated if it had been with someone who was just using me. It's more responsible to wait until one is ready.

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

Man i cant cheat on my waifu

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