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I Say Men Will Be Men

Last night I found out the guy I've been seeing for the past month is married. His defense is that his marriage has gone bad and he'll probably ask for a separation soon and I never asked him if he was married so technically he's been honest with me. That's total shit. He deceived me like a coward.
It hasn't been that long so I don't have a huge emotional investment but I was really feeling like it might go somewhere so today I feel like someone ran over me. How do I trust guys when they do something like this?

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doodlebug2013 · 41-45, F

If he cheats on her he'll probably cheat on you eventually, too. If he's walked the gray area between deceiving you and being technically honest so far he will keep doing that in other ways later to you, too. You totally do deserve better than him. It sucks terribly finding out but it is better to find out this early on than later.