I Say Men Will Be Men Last night I found out the guy I've been seeing for the past month is...

SW-User

You definitely can't trust a guy that cheated on someone he took vows with... And the fact that he hid his marriage from you most likely means that he's not looking for a divorce, just a little fun while going through a rough patch

doodlebug2013 · 41-45, F

If he cheats on her he'll probably cheat on you eventually, too. If he's walked the gray area between deceiving you and being technically honest so far he will keep doing that in other ways later to you, too. You totally do deserve better than him. It sucks terribly finding out but it is better to find out this early on than later.

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Mmiker · 46-50, M

It not only ruins it for him but it loses your trust towards others. A form of abuse. That begins with a selfish act but has long lasting ramifications.

Isthisit · F

This guy is scum for deceiving you. He doesn't deserve you. You deserve better

splendid · 41-45, M

I'm sorry this happened, but it's good you found out early in the game. Yes, some people with use, take, and deceive. I find that the best was to find out people like this is to ask them to make a sacrifice---not huge, but big enough to matter. Almost always, the users will find excuses not to make the sacrifice.

RPFeeder · 36-40, M

Most men and women are deceptive about who the are physically, socially, and psychologically. You just gotta sift through the trash till you find someone brave enough to not filter themselves, and you love the unfiltered version of them. Good luck!

Uncfred · 61-69, M

The ways of the world for some, for others honesty is paramount. Sad to see you have been hurt so early in your adult life, Take care next time, ask the question even if they lie to you. Until you become a mother, you are the most important person your world, so try to enjoy it.🙂

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approachingmyexpirationdate · 61-69, M

I think we've gotten to the point that you should do a background check on anybody that isn't known to you or to your friends.

Hope his **** falls off.

Normanwestie · 61-69, M

You have sympathy my dear as you are completely innocent but I also feel for his wife as she is stuck with the lying git

SatyrService · M

It WAS deception, leaving out critical information.
Kinda like
"Oh BTW, I had syphylis whe we met, um shouda metionend that huh?"

Snowleopard2000 · 51-55, M

I'm so sorry you experienced this :-( that is so unfair.. you will find someone new and amazing I'm sure

SevenTierCrazyCake · F

Shitty of him not to tell you the truth & let you make up your own mind on what’s acceptable.

SW-User

He knew he was married. Plain and simple. If anyone cares to know, I am married.

djjohnson · 41-45, M

If it turned intimate then it should have been one of the first things he mentioned.

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SW-User

wow... so sorry
🤦🏻‍♂️

SW-User

Wow that is awful that he did that to you and his wife not all men are like that I hope you find someone worthy of your loveliness

johnnyq12 · 36-40, M

it is how the male gender is we are honest caring and always reliable. srry that this happened to you