I Think Good Communication Is Vital To A Good Relationship

If you hear about me through someone else's perspective. You didn't really give me a chance to hear me out. Quick to judge and to voluntarily jump in front of the gun.

What happens if you heard some bad stuff coming from Tom. Tom twisted the truth and passed the info to Jane. Jane likes the drama and said she heard all of this crap from Bob. Bob overheard this discussion and wanted the issue to be at rest. Bob kept it to himself, because he didn't care or wished to cause even more trouble. The person hearing all of this will automatically assume and go to Bob. Bob is confused.

This is why communication is key in Reality. It sorts out the arguments.