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SoFine · 46-50, F
Your sense of self is low. That is you need to build up your self-worth.
WHY?
People or partners will always push your insecure buttons. It is normal part of life, then how you internalise the actions of others, happens in you.
Work on you, to be complete and validated by you. You will never ever be validated from your mate/children/family/co-workers ....
Aim to be in each moment as it is ....else if you hang onto what people did to you, you will empty you. You will become depleted, your body energy will fail you.
Are you always tired? if so, then see how this drains you.
Yes, people are mean, they also help.
Then become your own best friend in life.
WHY?
People or partners will always push your insecure buttons. It is normal part of life, then how you internalise the actions of others, happens in you.
Work on you, to be complete and validated by you. You will never ever be validated from your mate/children/family/co-workers ....
Aim to be in each moment as it is ....else if you hang onto what people did to you, you will empty you. You will become depleted, your body energy will fail you.
Are you always tired? if so, then see how this drains you.
Yes, people are mean, they also help.
Then become your own best friend in life.