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I Am Confused About My Relationship

I admit my partner and I had relationship problems in the past and currently in healing process. But then I come to realise a guy I used to like a long time ago single right now. I have no intention of breaking up and going to him (which is impossible because he's living in another country) and I don't know how he feels about me but I keep thinking of him all day and have these urge to tell him how I feel. I don't know if these feelings are byproduct of my vulnerable situation but I am really confused. I want to stay in my current relationship with my partner who is finally working things out but I am struggling to control my feelings for the other guy.

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TaintedDoll · 31-35, F

Honestly, if this is your train of thought, I dont think you need to be in a relationship right now. You need to take time to get back in touch with yourself. Tell your boyfriend you want to take a break. Take some time apart so you both can figure yourselves out. The feelings you're having for the other guy are more than likely just your mind telling you "it's tough now and that SUCKS, remember when it was fun with that other guy?" Ignore that. It's a self-destructive train of thought.