I Am Having Family Problems
Final Update:
My brother texted me to say that my parents were due to go to his on the day I said I would visit. I called my mum, I said I would be around at 12.30pm the taxi I order was booked for then. My Stepdad insisted that he had to leave at 1pm to be at my brothers house for 2pm. My husband (who is a driver by trade). Said that even driving at 30 miles per hour it would only take 30 minutes tops to reach my brothers house. We dropped off the present and cards we got them. Luckily they had stayed in to receive it.
In the card I tried to remind my mother that she has 5 children (yeah), I ain't the only one here. And put a collaboration of me and my sister together with mum together.
5 hours later my brother posts online a picture of his wife his mother in law and my mother sitting on a bench together near their home.
I was very angry, as I could see my mother was not impressed. She look positively miserable. Worst she is 83 years old and that day was not a day for sitting outside because it was a cold day. My sister in law might think it a warm day as would her mother as they originate from a country where Siberian weather is the norm. But not my mother. I felt sorry for her.
Since then she has not telephoned me.
On the social media page I had some comments. So I tried to tell the truth. Only technical glitch with my laptop it got sent several times to people. Now they think as my brother keeps insisting that I am mentally unstable.
But if I say to them. Ask him what exactly is my diagnosis and what medication I am supposed to he taking for this illness. They will then become hostile and try some other way of reasoning why they do not like me.
Not just simply saying we had an argument and we are getting back at her.
My brother texted me to say that my parents were due to go to his on the day I said I would visit. I called my mum, I said I would be around at 12.30pm the taxi I order was booked for then. My Stepdad insisted that he had to leave at 1pm to be at my brothers house for 2pm. My husband (who is a driver by trade). Said that even driving at 30 miles per hour it would only take 30 minutes tops to reach my brothers house. We dropped off the present and cards we got them. Luckily they had stayed in to receive it.
In the card I tried to remind my mother that she has 5 children (yeah), I ain't the only one here. And put a collaboration of me and my sister together with mum together.
5 hours later my brother posts online a picture of his wife his mother in law and my mother sitting on a bench together near their home.
I was very angry, as I could see my mother was not impressed. She look positively miserable. Worst she is 83 years old and that day was not a day for sitting outside because it was a cold day. My sister in law might think it a warm day as would her mother as they originate from a country where Siberian weather is the norm. But not my mother. I felt sorry for her.
Since then she has not telephoned me.
On the social media page I had some comments. So I tried to tell the truth. Only technical glitch with my laptop it got sent several times to people. Now they think as my brother keeps insisting that I am mentally unstable.
But if I say to them. Ask him what exactly is my diagnosis and what medication I am supposed to he taking for this illness. They will then become hostile and try some other way of reasoning why they do not like me.
Not just simply saying we had an argument and we are getting back at her.
